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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 06:52 AM   41
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Nice to have you with us MrsE, although obviously i wish with all my heart that none of us were on this thread but we are, so we will get eachother through this nightmare.

I am feeling a little better today after a very down day yesterday. Feeling aggressive still but managing to put a lid on it. Got my slimming class later and hoping i get my 2 stone award. I am focusing on losing weight, getting fit and enjoying life as best i can and hoping that next year see's me pregnant somehow or another. Where there is life there is hope ladies. NEVER let us be defeated xxx



 
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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 06:55 AM   42
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Hi MrsE

I find it so sad that there are so many different types of struggles ... no-one should have to go through this



Bugs - I am looking forward to my first appointment ... I will try anything to finally make this be a success!! (And I hate ... hate needles... total phobia of them!)

Glad that you are feeling a bit better today AQ! And that is important - to keep enjoying life! We only have one, so we should try to make the best of it!



 
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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 09:35 AM   43
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Thanks Andrea. I meant to say to you also that i lost my mum in Aug 2011 just a mth before our 1st IVF cycle, then my best friend Jane in Nov 2012 and my oldest friend Kelly in Feb this year so i understand how terrible grief is alongside infertility. It really is soul destroying but like you say, we have just one life and we never know what is around the corner so i plan to live my life the best i can for myself and also in memory of my mum and my friends xxxx



 
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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 14:01 PM   44
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I am so very sorry for your losses



 
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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 14:41 PM   45
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Hi bubumaci. Sorry to hear your having difficult journey too.

It has been a difficult few days for me. My emotions have been all over the place and just can't believe we are still no further forward. Oh well onwards and up. I am back in school next week so i am sure time will fly. We have decided that it is pretty pointless going for our review as he basically said donor eggs last time and we both have a tough time getting time off work so we are just going to go straight for donor appointments, with care and also going to try and get an appointment with the ukfc in liverpool.

Bugs- glad you got your notes sorted.

Africa- hope you have had a better day. X x x

Mrse- welcome to the thread. It will be amazing when we all get our babies x x



 
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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 15:11 PM   46
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Cvaeh would you really not consider going abroad, donor egg cycles in this country are silly prices and I wouldn't recommend egg sharing coz they don't use proven donors like they do in some clinics abroad and you just don't know what your gonna get. Some poor cow ended up with half of my shitty eggs. I should never have been accepted as a donor.

Well I've got to say I'm pretty upset about some things that have been said on this site tonight I wish people had a bit more compassion coz at the end of the day once their babies are born they'll forget all about us and the thread but we'll still be looking for advice, support and an escape but that's all I'm going to say on the matter xxxx



 
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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 16:35 PM   47
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Andrea- I am very sorry for you losses too. We have plenty of guardian angels x

Heather- I agree with what you said about not point in FU etc as i felt that at our last one. Yep my eggs are pretty poor so how many different ways can it be said kwim? we will get there. Good luck with your DE plan. I am sure that will make the difference. I have been thinking of you lots x

Bugs- I don't know what has gone on tonight but i am sorry if someone has upset you and we will be here for eachother always like we have done for the past 4yrs so don't worry about that x

Got my 2 stone award at slimming world tonight! made up xxx



 
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Old Aug 28th, 2013, 16:53 PM   48
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Bugs- yes we are going to luck at going abroad. We are just a bit worried about things going wrong abroad after me having complications the last two cycles. I know with egg donation there are probably less risks but how do we go on with getting insured etc. Also with me being a teacher i can only go in holidays so would therefore be looking at April or even summer. I wouldn't do egg share. I would be looking at having an exclusive donor and hope they would be able to say whether they already had children. I need to get my body back to shape anyway and we are in the process of moving and converting a barn so i don't think we will be doing anything before Christmas anyway. Do you think they will make us have a review before we meet the donation team? Mr p will probably be relieved he doesn't have to face me again.
I hope nothing i have said has offended you x x x
me and dh finally went out for our anniversary meal tonight. Our anniversary was actually on day of egg collection so haven't been able to go but it yes lovely to go out and be a 'normal' couple. Feel lots better today even though i am a hormonal mess. My period has finally made an appearance so the gestone defiantly worked better than the pessaries for me.



 
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Old Aug 29th, 2013, 01:27 AM   49
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No not at all Cveah just another thread, water of a ducks back but just a bit inappropriate I thought, I've got enough on my plate without worrying about hurting someone's feelings xxx



 
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Old Aug 29th, 2013, 01:55 AM   50
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Bugs, I am sorry that you got upset on another thread. I think it is very easy for people, once they are successful, to forget how it was before their wish was granted. And to forget how quickly hurtful things can be said.

Cvaeh - thank you for your welcome. I was just hunting on the internet to see about donor eggs in Hungary (I have family in Budapest and Hungary has excellent medical care) since it is illegal in Germany. I came across a clinic that seems to be very good, does offer all the normal IUI, IVF, ICSI etc. care as well as donor eggs and donor sperm. Being in Hungary, the prices are well below US, UK and Western European prices (we are already about 40 KEUR out of pocket here!!) ... perhaps you would consider taking a look?

Here is the link to the website :

http://ivfpregnancycenter.com/



 
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