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Old Feb 24th, 2012, 07:58 AM   51
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So i have a personal question ladies...you are more then welcome to ignore it.....but they say sexual libido is supposed to next to nothing.....but all I have to do is shake my you know what or flash a nipple and Im getting pounced...On average we do it bout 2 times a week give or take once. After 5 yrs I think that is pretty regular.



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2012, 08:19 AM   52
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So i have a personal question ladies...you are more then welcome to ignore it.....but they say sexual libido is supposed to next to nothing.....but all I have to do is shake my you know what or flash a nipple and Im getting pounced...On average we do it bout 2 times a week give or take once. After 5 yrs I think that is pretty regular.
ha ha funny, same here my DH sex drive is very high! He's randy all the time lol. Id say average we are about twice a week too.
The first time i'd heard that it should be low is on here. No docs have mentioned this to us so i was quite shocked when it was mentioned on here.



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2012, 08:24 AM   53
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So i have a personal question ladies...you are more then welcome to ignore it.....but they say sexual libido is supposed to next to nothing.....but all I have to do is shake my you know what or flash a nipple and Im getting pounced...On average we do it bout 2 times a week give or take once. After 5 yrs I think that is pretty regular.
ha ha funny, same here my DH sex drive is very high! He's randy all the time lol. Id say average we are about twice a week too.
The first time i'd heard that it should be low is on here. No docs have mentioned this to us so i was quite shocked when it was mentioned on here.
I had originally found out about it on the information online along with hubby. Of course that made him think his libido was on the low side and now every time he pounces I say "libido my ass" lol to let him no I think that its full of crock he thinks he is lacking.



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2012, 08:38 AM   54
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So i have a personal question ladies...you are more then welcome to ignore it.....but they say sexual libido is supposed to next to nothing.....but all I have to do is shake my you know what or flash a nipple and Im getting pounced...On average we do it bout 2 times a week give or take once. After 5 yrs I think that is pretty regular.
Absolutely no problems here either. Very regular (3 or 4 times a week usually) and never any problems with performance etc. After over 7 years I think that says a lot too lol.

Low libido is apparently linked to low Tesosterone and those guys with KS usually have a low Testosterone due to the usual testicular failure that comes with the syndrome.

But just like those men with KS don't all have the same features of the syndrome, it appears libido isn't affected for all of them either. I wonder if perhaps some of these guys have just gotten used to not having as much Testosterone because they were born with it? No ideas. I'm just very glad my DH's libido isn't affected because this diagnosis and the azoospermia is hard enough to deal with as it is, isn't it?



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2012, 08:51 AM   55
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Definately no low libido here either at least every other day everyday sometimes, I was concerned though that if his testosterone were to drop it might affect it, that would finish him off I think lol!



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2012, 11:08 AM   56
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Wow 7 yrs and u get laid that much? Lucky lady lol I am thankful for one thing about the ne sperm part. I see so many lttc couples that make doing the deed a chore and with my DH and I, I know everytime we do it, is simply because we love each other and finds me doable lol sex will never become a chore for us.



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2012, 05:01 AM   57
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Wow 7 yrs and u get laid that much? Lucky lady lol I am thankful for one thing about the ne sperm part. I see so many lttc couples that make doing the deed a chore and with my DH and I, I know everytime we do it, is simply because we love each other and finds me doable lol sex will never become a chore for us.
Yes, I really get laid that much. After 5 years of marriage I'd been warned things would get stale ... if anything they're better than ever.

To be honest even though we'd been TTC for nearly a year when we found out about DH, sex still wasn't a chore because we just enjoy it too much. Any excuse and all that! We both have high sex drives.

I do think what your last sentence says is sweet and very true though. Sex for us couples now is purely for the pleasure and intimacy and will never, ever be for anything else, which is kinda cool. Well, we've got to look at the positives right!



 
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Hey I believe you have to look at the positives and crack jokes along the way. Otherwise the whole situation is just too dang depressing



 
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Old Feb 29th, 2012, 14:33 PM   59
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How is everyone doing this week?



 
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Woah huge congratulations on you bfp! You must be thrilled x x



 
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