Oops only just seen your post... I live on the west coast and just went to the clinic we were recovered to which was Hollywood, they have been great so far, unfortunately we got a BFN with our first icsi but we have 3 Christie's and will be having a FET next month fx'd

That's referred to not recovered... Stupid iPhone!

so sorry to hear about your BFN. I hope you are feeling fine. I wish you loads and loads of sticky dust. You really deserve your BFP.

Hi Sheri sorry to hear about the bfn
Were u ttc'ing very long before IvF ?
How are u feeling about it if u don't mind me asking?
Hope your FET goes well next month and it's great u get to try again so soon

Ladyf hope the bday party went well I can't believe that friend of yours asks u about ttc in front of others that is so insensitive some people have no idea.

Had a relaxing weekend and no bd'ing
So basically I am absolutely heading for IvF . Dh has kinda lost his mojo during ov week I guess when u hear that we only have 2% Chance each month it's hard to keep the momentum

Dont worry too much about not BDing if you really are ready for IVF. I am just taking it easy and waiting for my IVF. It sure helps to take some stress off before the actual IVF thingy begins.

Thanks guys, af showed up on the Friday before Monday's BT & I was devastated that day & I'm still sad but in a way I'm glad it happened straight away & not a m/c a few weeks down the track...
Aleja my OH has a blood disorder & his medication to controll it is a light dose of chemo everyday in tablet form which is terrible for sperm, so we knew from the start & his first count was 1 million, though we still tried while we saved the $$$ for ivf icsi. I have 2 DD ( 14 & 11 ) from my first marriage that I conceived pretty much the first month of trying so ivf was something I never dreamed I would ever have to go through myself but it sure has made me realize how my girls are even more precious to me now than they already were...

We really appreciate that you shared your story with us. Blessed you are to have your 2 DDs. May god soon bless you with another LO. Wishing you lots and lots of luck with FET.

hi sheri, you are so right about your daughters being precious little beings. i guess we only realise how special conceiving life is when it is hard to do so. Thanks for sharing your story about your DH . it is amazing to think that modern technology can help each one tof us to hopefully conceive no matter what the medical situation. all the best

honeycheeks- yes that's exactly right i am ready for IVf and i didn't really have much hope for a natural PG anyway...now i wish the clock would just tick over.....
today we got a phone call from the clinic ..our first official IVF consult has been rescheduled from tomorrow to Friday apparently the FS got called away or something. If we hadn't already met him a few times (and thought he was pretty good) I would be so annoyed right now....

Aleja - wishing you all the luck needed to make a baby. Getting your appointment postponed must be the most frustrating thing to happen. I have been counting down every day to my first appointment. Well friday isnt too far away. I am thinking of you. Update us on your appointment.

Other than counting days to my first consultation, I have been praying that AF doesnt eff up. I dont ovulate without CLomid or so, but I still hope my cycles are not disturbed, I mean i still want AF to come when it is expected, that way I wont have to deal with much mess before I nose dive into the IVF protocol, or so I think. Who knows for sure

Hey ladies
Sheri l hope you get your BFP soon.guess the 2DD you already have make you realise how blessed you are. Sending lots of baby dust your way! Fxd

Honeycheeks- yes fibroids can be nasty, wish l had started the investigations a long time ago.hope your cycles don't get messed up and Af comes right on time.

Aleja-l know sometimes Bding is just not possible when you are not in the mood. Friday is just around the corner, hope everything goes well.

Afm- l have multiple fibroids and the largest one is on the outside of the uterus. Was referred to a FS who only comes to the centre once a fortnight , so l see him next Thursday.l will ask him if l can be a regular patient so that l can go to his office when l need to. Gp requested for a repeat for my DH SA, he said we should abstain for 2 weeks?but google says if you abstain for more than 7 days the sperm won't be good. ! So l will ask the FS if that is the right thing to do. If fibroid is outside l would rather try the iui first before surgery or anything if he says it's ok. and DH first sperm count was really low, less than a million .
I got a positive opk on sat, Bd on Sunday but after the results on Monday , l just wasnt up to it. Next week feels like next year to me.

The party was ok, one lady ( acquaintance) who was at the party is 15 weeks pregnant and she has been married for 4 months. Yep! 4 months and it just happened like that! I am happy for her , but where is my BFP?????