let us know how it goes babes xxxx

i wouldnt worry too much unless your LP goes under 12. ive read anything from 12-16 days is a normal LP. As long as you fall in that bracket i think you are good. 10 days is too short and would most likely cause infertility b/c implantation can take 6-12 days. i dont have any of those symptoms during my LP though..i have cramping and backaches during o but i've never noticed it during my LP. i get loose stools also sometimes but its only with the cramps after AF shows and doc says its hormones that cause it. you already have one child correct? did you have trouble conceiving? were you keeping track of your cycles and LP then? im just asking cuz its obvious you CAN get pg so thats a good thing. like i said i have nothing to compare to cuz i was NTNP. it is very rare that my cycle is 30 days..it happens but rarely..i usually stay b/t 32-34 so i was pretty shocked to see her this AM. Good luck and let us know how it all goes okay!

sami- FX'd for your on the 12th keep us posted hunny! lemme know how the softcups work for you..i hope i wont have a problem getting them in there...kinda nervous bout that!

HAPPY EASTER!!! (to those that celebrate)

dint have any probs getting preggers first time but she is 19 lol im 40 now lol well the witch showed dead on time she was here when i woke up this morning might give up on it getting fed up of witch showing every month, dont know what else i can do we covered all my fertile window last month still didnt work

dont give up doll!! i covered all my fertile window too and i still got AF! remember its only a 25 percent chance each cycle! i know how frustrating it is honey. i found out a week before we started AI last month that ANOTHER friend of mine is pg w/an "oops" baby. thats the 5th person in my circle of friends to get pg without trying since we started in october! I HATE IT! im tired of pretending to be happy for them when they say...omg we werent planning this but i guess it was meant to be..grrrrr all my friends on on their 3rd babies w/children 9/10yo and here i am 31 w/a 2yo just now ttc #2..i purposely waited till i was in my late 20s to start BDing w/o BC but now im thinking..maybe i shoulda had a baby w/my first husband when i was 23 instead of waiting...i hated his guts though after a year so i dont know how it woulda panned out.. just keep thinking positive thoughts..we decided we ARENT going to buy opks this month and just AI and TRY (if possible) to like every other or every 2 nites this month and see what happens..maybe itll take off the stress and itll happen!! ill keep ya in my thoughts!!

aww thanks hun well im trying to increase my ewcm this month also going to use softcups and bd every other day this month instead of every day gl to us hun and hope atleast one of us gets our bfp but would love it if we both got our bfp we could be bump buddies lol xx

hi mammidoll and bluebell sorry af came ,its realy frustrating isnt it im due on the 12th but think af will come early as have terrible pmt hope af does come early now , so can concentrate on next month ?

are you ladies both gonna try soft cups this month ? want to try but a bit scared off how to get it up there and back out

sorry havent replied till now had a shit couple off days !! basically a close friend off mine rang me last week and asked if i was free all day next week cos she needed to go to hospital ,which she has had to do alot latley for a blood thing.
anyway cutting a long story short on way to hosp she told me she was having an abortion and didnt want to be on her own, so i sat with her from half nine till 5 o clock waiting for it to happen, whilst watching all the other ladies with new borns.

dont get me wrong i believe every woman has the right to do this, but she knows about my fertility proplems and how much i want a baby am i being a bit silly ? my patner was furious and said i should knock her frienship on the head ?

anyhow sorry about the rant , how are you ladies feeling? lets hope for a bfp next cycle

well babe if that was me i wouldnt have gone..if she knows what your going to to try and have a baby and she wants you to go with her while she gets rid of hers id have killed her im deffo using softcups this month i too was still am worried about getting then out but someone told me its easy all u need to do is insert finger and hook it out lol ill let you know im going to pratice when mine come lol

hi bluerose, yeh i would not have said yes if she had told me before it was to late ie - arriving at the hosp

anyway rang docs today to find out my blood results and was told have to see the doctor as my hormones are very low so feeling a bit dis heartned at the mo anyway how are you today ?

I'm thinking of trying soft cups in a few months (but hopefully I'll get my before then!), but I'm also worried about the same issue! Will have to let me know how you get on!

That's a bit out of order! Does she know you're TTC?! Oh huni

I've got at least 8 days to go before I can test this month, so still hope!

Bluebell and silver bell thinking of adding you as TTC buddies in my signature if that's ok with you ladies?

silverbell im sorry bout that hun but im sure they will sort things for you



and yes hun its ok if u add me