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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 01:52 AM   1
missk1989
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oh not fussed about mothers day :(


Oh got me a card which was nice but other than that he isn't fussing. I had to get up with lo at half 6 and clean him up when he was sick, do the nappy changes. He didn't even offer to make me a drink when he made himself one. I'm a bit gutted as its my first mothers day but it looks like its just going to be like every other day.



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 01:54 AM   2
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Oh I'm sorry hun that totally sucks Do you think he can tell your disappointed?



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 01:56 AM   3
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No. He's on his iPad and make a comment ten mins ago about a dirty nappy that still needs changing. He will wait until I do it then say "I was going to do that" *sigh*



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 03:00 AM   4
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I'm in the same boat. I thought I made it clear I wanted a bit of fuss as its my first Mother's Day.

I got a card and a cup of tea. He is now playing the play station and I am in bed having a cuddle with my boy.

The only plus was my little boy who never sleeps more than 3 hours at night slept 10-1 and then 2-7. It's as if he knows lol. x



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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 03:07 AM   5
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Tell me about it Abby woke up earlier than normal and oh was meant to be sorting her this morning. Instead he was whinging so much about not getting enough sleep that he is currently asleep whilst I sort everything for Abby and get her ready for the day. He'll probably apologise later when he realises how upset I am but he'd still probably do it again in a heartbeat as he is like a stroppy teenager when it comes to sleep



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 03:10 AM   6
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Well not that I'm spiteful but I hope he doesn't expect much when its father's day!



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 03:11 AM   7
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Same here. I've been up with our daughter since 6am, done all his dishes from last night, the washing that needs done and got on the Sunday lunch and he's still sleeping because he's so tired. This is my first mothers day but its just the same as every other day - if I make a fuss I just know I'll get the whole "well it was your choice to get up with her!" I could actually cry, I was hoping for a bit of pampering xx



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 03:13 AM   8
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is it today?

here it is in May. I will probably get a cake. LOL.



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 03:18 AM   9
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Well not that I'm spiteful but I hope he doesn't expect much when its father's day!
This was going to be my response! If he hasn't bothered for you, don't you bother for him x



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 03:35 AM   10
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I'm still sitting in bedroom with my son as OH is still playing computer in living room - I don't fancy sitting watching that!!

The longer I sit here, looking at Facebook and seeing how other mums are being treated, the more angry and upset I am getting.

I asked for a bit of toast and he hasn't bothered as its his Sunday and he is back at work tomorrow.

I feel so sad that my first Mother's Day has become so insignificant.
I am angry he doesn't seem to appreciate me as a wife an mother to his child. He has never done a night shift with our son, he still gets his 7-9 hours sleep every night since our son was born an he can't thank me for that.

I'm so glad I have my boy for cuddles just now, I suppose I should focus on that.

Is anyone confronting their OH about this and how upset they are? x



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