Does anyone else get the terrors? - Page 3

Nickij · May 8th, 2010, 12:27 PM

I worry about EVERYTHING, from someone snatching the buggy in the supermarket to me falling down the stairs when carrying him, to someone smashing into the car.

Its amazing how much of a normal life we manage to lead considering how much I worry

Buffy71 · May 8th, 2010, 13:18 PM

I'm just so relieved I'm not going nuts. Or at least if I am I'm in great company!!

Babybug - great day to have a baby eh! Look at your lo rolling over!! H is too lazy - if I try to tempt her to roll to a toy she moans till I help her roll lol.

Xx

becstar · May 8th, 2010, 13:23 PM

ALL. THE. TIME.

My mind goes into overdrive at all the awful things that could happen to her, that someone else could do to her, or that I could do to her by accident. I never used to be like this!

hancake100 · May 8th, 2010, 13:51 PM

So glad for this thred!!!!!
I think like this on a daily basis and thought I was going crazy but I get myself so worked up thinking bad thoughts and sometimes sit and cry to myself thinking 'what if' Its not a nice feeling is it? xxx

babydevil1989 · May 8th, 2010, 14:11 PM

i have this and i have anxiety any way and my biggest fear is me being on my own with toby in town having a panic attack and fainting (which i have NEVER done *touch wood*) and someone stealing little one! i think its mothers instinct and the insane love you feel for them! x

loverguts · May 8th, 2010, 14:15 PM

definitely! the main thing i worry about is the thought of my LO ever being hurt or getting really ill, it makes me super sad sometimes when im looking at him and i think of how helpless and fragile he is at the moment! and recently ive developed some weird worry about who would look after him if anything happened to me and i get in a right state thinking that no one could possibly love him as much as me or be as completely devoted to him as i am!

Zarababy1 · May 8th, 2010, 14:21 PM

yep im exactly the same! we live right near a train track urggggh its not good i always worry charlies gunna get out and run too it! since having harry im not so bad but i had loads after having charlie im calming down a bit now but it still happens!

edit: i always worry about things i know i would never do as well like today i put harry on the drive next too the car before i strapped him in and thought oh god what if i forgot him and left him there i his car seat!!!

PregnantKez · May 8th, 2010, 17:19 PM

I thought I was strange having these thoughts, but I have these thoughts about baby and my OH. My last one was us all crashing in the ocean when we went on a plane that we survived but we had to swim out and look after LO in the cold cold water until help came!

I also worry about social services taking him away from me because I'm fat! I always try and figure out what I'd do, like hiding him in next door's garden in the cold! Even though I've never met social services etc

I have to stop reading Daily Mail :s it puts things in my head

But thanks for letting me know I'm not alone

Sekhmet · May 9th, 2010, 02:57 AM

Does anyone else have nightmares about something bad happening to LO?

I've had a couple, but the one I remember most was when I dreamed that I lost her. I dreamed that I was on Princes Street with her in the pram, at a very crowded corner, and I put the brake on the pram and walked away to smoke a cigarette! (I don't even really smoke, except on rare, social occasions!) When I came back, the pram was gone. I remember feeling, in the dream when I thought she was gone, that I very badly wanted to die. It was such a relief when I woke up and realized it wasn't real!

Buffy71 · May 9th, 2010, 03:27 AM

I dream that I've brought her into bed for a feed ( I ff and have never brought her into bed with my hubby and me both in it together) and dream I've dozed off and she's caught in the duvet and the duvet is HUGE and I can't find her in the folds. Horrible!

May 8th, 2010, 12:27 PM	#21
Nickij Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,512	I worry about EVERYTHING, from someone snatching the buggy in the supermarket to me falling down the stairs when carrying him, to someone smashing into the car. Its amazing how much of a normal life we manage to lead considering how much I worry

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May 8th, 2010, 13:18 PM	#22
Buffy71 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,954	I'm just so relieved I'm not going nuts. Or at least if I am I'm in great company!! Babybug - great day to have a baby eh! Look at your lo rolling over!! H is too lazy - if I try to tempt her to roll to a toy she moans till I help her roll lol. Xx

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May 8th, 2010, 13:23 PM	#23
becstar Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: London Posts: 3,373	ALL. THE. TIME. My mind goes into overdrive at all the awful things that could happen to her, that someone else could do to her, or that I could do to her by accident. I never used to be like this!

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May 8th, 2010, 13:51 PM	#24
hancake100 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Rossendale, Lancashire Posts: 2,212	So glad for this thred!!!!! I think like this on a daily basis and thought I was going crazy but I get myself so worked up thinking bad thoughts and sometimes sit and cry to myself thinking 'what if' Its not a nice feeling is it? xxx

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May 8th, 2010, 14:11 PM	#25
babydevil1989 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: west sussex uk Posts: 6,682	i have this and i have anxiety any way and my biggest fear is me being on my own with toby in town having a panic attack and fainting (which i have NEVER done touch wood) and someone stealing little one! i think its mothers instinct and the insane love you feel for them! x

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May 8th, 2010, 14:15 PM	#26
loverguts Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Kent Posts: 2,158	definitely! the main thing i worry about is the thought of my LO ever being hurt or getting really ill, it makes me super sad sometimes when im looking at him and i think of how helpless and fragile he is at the moment! and recently ive developed some weird worry about who would look after him if anything happened to me and i get in a right state thinking that no one could possibly love him as much as me or be as completely devoted to him as i am!

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May 8th, 2010, 14:21 PM	#27
Zarababy1 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Oxfordshire Posts: 7,650	yep im exactly the same! we live right near a train track urggggh its not good i always worry charlies gunna get out and run too it! since having harry im not so bad but i had loads after having charlie im calming down a bit now but it still happens! edit: i always worry about things i know i would never do as well like today i put harry on the drive next too the car before i strapped him in and thought oh god what if i forgot him and left him there i his car seat!!!

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May 8th, 2010, 17:19 PM	#28
PregnantKez Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: North West UK Posts: 313	I thought I was strange having these thoughts, but I have these thoughts about baby and my OH. My last one was us all crashing in the ocean when we went on a plane that we survived but we had to swim out and look after LO in the cold cold water until help came! I also worry about social services taking him away from me because I'm fat! I always try and figure out what I'd do, like hiding him in next door's garden in the cold! Even though I've never met social services etc I have to stop reading Daily Mail :s it puts things in my head But thanks for letting me know I'm not alone

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May 9th, 2010, 02:57 AM	#29
Sekhmet Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Yankee in Edinburgh Posts: 909	Does anyone else have nightmares about something bad happening to LO? I've had a couple, but the one I remember most was when I dreamed that I lost her. I dreamed that I was on Princes Street with her in the pram, at a very crowded corner, and I put the brake on the pram and walked away to smoke a cigarette! (I don't even really smoke, except on rare, social occasions!) When I came back, the pram was gone. I remember feeling, in the dream when I thought she was gone, that I very badly wanted to die. It was such a relief when I woke up and realized it wasn't real!

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May 9th, 2010, 03:27 AM	#30
Buffy71 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,954	I dream that I've brought her into bed for a feed ( I ff and have never brought her into bed with my hubby and me both in it together) and dream I've dozed off and she's caught in the duvet and the duvet is HUGE and I can't find her in the folds. Horrible!

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