Those with Rainbow babies...

kiki04 · Oct 30th, 2011, 21:04 PM

does it really fill a void? Does it help to have a rainbow in your arms or is the pain as strong as it ever was?

membas#1 · Oct 30th, 2011, 21:16 PM

didnt want to read and run

catfromaus · Oct 30th, 2011, 21:33 PM

For me, although I will never forget, Emma has taken away the longing for a child that had taken over my life. Hugs xx

SammieGrace · Oct 30th, 2011, 22:03 PM

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Originally Posted by catfromaus

For me, although I will never forget, Emma has taken away the longing for a child that had taken over my life. Hugs xx

I think that you put this just right. It is bittersweet because it makes me wonder what life would be like if I had my daughter with me. But it is wonderful to be a mother and does fulfill a lifelong dream for me. the loss will never go away, but I am so glad that I have my son and I appreciate the opportunity to be with him even more. Does that make sense?

iHeartbaby#1 · Oct 30th, 2011, 22:11 PM

Can't answer your question but

kiki04 · Oct 30th, 2011, 22:13 PM

It does make sense... I ask because in my mind, another baby WILL help... but I have this small fear that it wont so its like a whats the point

kind of feeling. Even though I love babies and children as they just make me happy mine or not.... I dont want to have another thinking in my mind one thing, then it happens and I am shocked at how it proves me something else KWIM? I need to go into this having all my bases covered here

TTC again is approaching soon and the closer it gets the more scared I get!!!

And thanks for all the hugs ladies!

mummy2lola · Oct 31st, 2011, 01:55 AM

For me I'm overjoyed that Lola is my rainbow but it doesn't stop me thinking about the hard time before her and I always think about what date is coming up and how old pip would b and things but i tell myself everything happens for a reason and there's a reason why things happened the way they did and Lola shows that xx

Loui1001 · Oct 31st, 2011, 02:39 AM

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Originally Posted by mummy2lola

For me I'm overjoyed that Lola is my rainbow but it doesn't stop me thinking about the hard time before her and I always think about what date is coming up and how old pip would b and things but i tell myself everything happens for a reason and there's a reason why things happened the way they did and Lola shows that xx

This is exactly how I feel and I wouldn't have phrased it any differently. There isn't a day in life where I don't think about my little angel and it's especially hard when it comes up to due date and anniversary. But I can't imagine not having my rainbow baby and feel like I was always meant to have him x

blondebabe · Oct 31st, 2011, 02:44 AM

Didnt want to read and run, what is a rainbow baby? Hugs xxx

mummy2lola · Oct 31st, 2011, 02:54 AM

It's ur rainbow after the rains gone hun-u lose the rain but gain a gorgeous rainbow.u know the rain was there but the rainbow brightens ur day....

A baby after a loss xx

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kiki04 Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 2,872	It does make sense... I ask because in my mind, another baby WILL help... but I have this small fear that it wont so its like a whats the point kind of feeling. Even though I love babies and children as they just make me happy mine or not.... I dont want to have another thinking in my mind one thing, then it happens and I am shocked at how it proves me something else KWIM? I need to go into this having all my bases covered here TTC again is approaching soon and the closer it gets the more scared I get!!! And thanks for all the hugs ladies!

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