Parenting dilemma - how would you handle this? - Page 2

Mummy2B21 · Feb 3rd, 2012, 17:03 PM

My son is only 8 months and any chance he gets he has to grab his dinky lol Obviously he is way too young and its just something new that new can play with. Everytime his nappy is off or bath time his hands are straight there, he made me laugh the other night i was changing his bum while he was still asleep and he pulled it in his sleep and made a really funny face had me and OH in stiches lol x

Divinebeauty · Feb 3rd, 2012, 21:38 PM

I dont mean to be rude but....

im disturbed...

Should you be posting stuff like that ? About a little girl rubbing herself, or enjoying a vibrating chair?

On the subject. not ALL little girls do that.. and that is uhh very odd.. not much more to say.

Neko · Feb 3rd, 2012, 21:41 PM

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On the subject. not ALL little girls do that.. and that is uhh very odd.. not much more to say.

What about big girls?

Not to be rude, but what would your "friend" say if she saw this posted? I would hate to think somebody was talking about my child behind my back like this.

Cattia · Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:24 PM

I think the way some of you are taking this thread is a lot more disturbing than the OP.

Divinebeauty · Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:27 PM

The subject itself is disturbing doesn't matter how you take it. I have a daughter and in NO way would I ever wanting her to even talk like that!... wow.

A chair is for sitting not pleasure. esp to a 3 yr old. sorry.

Neko · Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:32 PM

Cattia, I don't think what her friend's daughter is doing is all that disturbing. It can be a normal phase. The parents might be ignoring it because sometimes that works with toddlers. Habits can go away if you don't give them attention.

Sorry, but if I ever found a friend was commenting on my parenting on the internet, I would be really hurt.

Cattia · Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:40 PM

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Cattia, I don't think what her friend's daughter is doing is all that disturbing. It can be a normal phase. The parents might be ignoring it because sometimes that works with toddlers. Habits can go away if you don't give them attention.

Sorry, but if I ever found a friend was commenting on my parenting on the internet, I would be really hurt.

I totally agree, I don't think it's all that disturbing either, it bothers me more that people would think the child is some sort of sexual deviant, to me that's over sexualising their behavuoir. I would totally just ignore it or at least I wouldn't attempt to address a child about it when I had friends there. I see what you mean though, although think the OP had a valid question but maybe could have phrased it in a more general way.

Divinebeauty · Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Neko

Cattia, I don't think what her friend's daughter is doing is all that disturbing. It can be a normal phase. The parents might be ignoring it because sometimes that works with toddlers. Habits can go away if you don't give them attention.

Sorry, but if I ever found a friend was commenting on my parenting on the internet, I would be really hurt.

I totally agree, I don't think it's all that disturbing either, it bothers me more that people would think the child is some sort of sexual deviant, to me that's over sexualising their behavuoir. I would totally just ignore it or at least I wouldn't attempt to address a child about it when I had friends there. I see what you mean though, although think the OP had a valid question but maybe could have phrased it in a more general way.

Sorry but someone coming on here posting about their friends daughter basically practicing sexual behavior on a child chair. or rubbing themselves sexually when tired? ? that disturbs me. i cant help it. I am not being rude either.

Neko · Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:44 PM

Children touch themselves because it feels good with no sexuality attached. Same way people scratch their rear-ends. My daughter had her hand down the back of her pants scratching her butt all night today. I didn't think anything of that other than to tell her it wasn't ladylike.

Cattia · Feb 3rd, 2012, 23:02 PM

Sorry, double post.

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Mummy2B21 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Essex, UK Posts: 10,033	My son is only 8 months and any chance he gets he has to grab his dinky lol Obviously he is way too young and its just something new that new can play with. Everytime his nappy is off or bath time his hands are straight there, he made me laugh the other night i was changing his bum while he was still asleep and he pulled it in his sleep and made a really funny face had me and OH in stiches lol x

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Feb 3rd, 2012, 21:38 PM	#12
Divinebeauty Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4,403	I dont mean to be rude but.... im disturbed... Should you be posting stuff like that ? About a little girl rubbing herself, or enjoying a vibrating chair? On the subject. not ALL little girls do that.. and that is uhh very odd.. not much more to say.

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Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:24 PM	#14
Cattia Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Hampshire, UK Posts: 6,750	I think the way some of you are taking this thread is a lot more disturbing than the OP.

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Feb 3rd, 2012, 22:27 PM	#15
Divinebeauty Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4,403	The subject itself is disturbing doesn't matter how you take it. I have a daughter and in NO way would I ever wanting her to even talk like that!... wow. A chair is for sitting not pleasure. esp to a 3 yr old. sorry.

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Neko Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northern NJ Posts: 2,152	Cattia, I don't think what her friend's daughter is doing is all that disturbing. It can be a normal phase. The parents might be ignoring it because sometimes that works with toddlers. Habits can go away if you don't give them attention. Sorry, but if I ever found a friend was commenting on my parenting on the internet, I would be really hurt.

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Neko Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northern NJ Posts: 2,152	Children touch themselves because it feels good with no sexuality attached. Same way people scratch their rear-ends. My daughter had her hand down the back of her pants scratching her butt all night today. I didn't think anything of that other than to tell her it wasn't ladylike.

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Feb 3rd, 2012, 23:02 PM	#20
Cattia Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Hampshire, UK Posts: 6,750	Sorry, double post.

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