Thank you x

Whats wrong MegGriffin? What happened? I would so hate seeing you go...! Please let me know what happened. If you don't want to post then private message me! xxx and hugs!


Edit: I forgot to add I don't know how to delete an account, but the other poster below messaged admin. so they should be able to let you know how to go about it. But, I wish you wouldn't... If something upset you in BabyClub, there are other forums you could go into...

Hey there,
I've just posted in the forum help section to ask them to delete mine too.
B&B has been a great source of help in LTTTC and pregnancy, but am finding in the baby forums there's a tendency to be shot down for having a differing opinion! Going to stick to friends and family for support from now on.
X

Just PM one of the mods.

Thank you ladies...snowflakes you are so unbelievably kind but I feel like its best for my sanity to stop going on these forums. Its not everyone else and no one as such has upseme but it's me....i am constantly second guessing myself, wondering if I'm doing the right thing, and I'm finding that coming onto bnb is making me compare my parenting with other people way too much, to the point where I'm constantly worried and starting tofeel like a failure as a mum. Its no ones fault but my own.. I'm too weak and I feel it would be better if I stopped coming on here. I'm in the process of giving lo some forumla top ups and sometimes when I read posts in the bf section I feel like utter shit, like i'm feeding my baby poison. And again its my fault for being too sensitive and not strong enough.
Bnb has been amazing to me times, esp when I've felt really down and gone through roughpatches, but now I think its not best for me or lo as I am constantly comparing and worrying. Sometimes I also find bc a little negative but again my fault. Thank you ladies for all your support and advise, esp you snowflakes :-) x

Meg hope you're ok sweetie and if you do delete your account then all the best for you and your LO, just remember that although being a mum is very rewarding it's also hard work and you should congratulate yourself every day for doing such a fab job! I totally understand where you're coming from in terms of the forum and that you want to find your own way of doing things. Hugs xxx

we're all in the same boat though hun, we all have days when we don't know what we're doing so we come on here for help, then other days you come on and see that someone's going through the same thing you've been through and you can help them and feel like you've made a difference.


PS I gave up on the BF section a long time ago too. The girls in there are only trying to help but can be a little bit blinkered sometimes. Just resist the urge to go in there and you'll feel much better.

xxxxxxxxx

Just pm a admin Hun.if ur really sure u want to go then nothing anyone says will stop u.but trust me Hun,u make the best decisions for u and ur lo,none of us know u or ur baby so a quick judgement about something is just bcoz someone feels "they can".formula is not poison and if u feel top ups are best then that's that,they r,as it's best for u and ur baby.let's b honest I'm sure there are things on here that others do that u wouldn't but that's ur choice.don't let anyone make u feel inferior bcoz u do something different to them xx

hi, i come on here for advise too just remind yourself mummy really does no best i get shot down loads and now actually find it amusing.. most people on here are very tired and everything can be taken the wrong way hope you do stay on as I think your really lovely Nothing worse than a forum full of hormonal women hehehehhehe

I'm so sorry that you feel you should leave because some people can't reel in their opinions. I honestly think their are certain members who LOVE to make others feel like utter shit with their holier than thou and "my way or the highway" attitude.

It's such a shame really, we are all mothers in the same boat and you would think a site like this would bring us all together. Instead it seems to have the opposite effect and mummies (including myself at times) are left to feel they are raising the child of satan because we choose to do things a little differently.

I really hope you don't leave because of bullies, but rather because it is best for you.

Hugs! xx