Does anyone else find this a bit odd bordering on a bit creepy
So here goes...my OH's cousins daughter has been ridiculously obsessed with my LO since he was born. She went through a phase when he was first born of appointing herself as his godmother ( he isn't even christened! ). She was commenting on all LOs photos on facebook with my beautiful godson! We told her that we weren't comfortable with her doing this and she stopped but she is still pestering us to always come round and see him at times that aren't convenient for us, such as in the evening when we are putting LO to bed. She constantly texts me saying she misses him ( she's seen him twice ) and she needs cuddles! She has also started to text me to say she was going to offer to 'take him' for the day, it's the way she says take him that to me sounds a bit on the sinister side and even if she worded it better I still wouldn't want her to have LO, he hardly knows her and has only seen her twice since he was born...I did try and explain this to her and her response was that she wanted to be more involved in his life watch him grow up and be more involved in our family life why?!
She keeps going on about babysitting him but I've told her that he has his nana or aunty to babysit if I needed one.
I would understand if OH and her were close to each other but up until LO was born they hardly spoke! Me an OH have now renamed her ronnie Mitchell! but in all seriousness I'm beginning to find it a tad unnerving...am I just being an utter cow or would she do your head in aswell? X
Quit replying to her and her own life will soon fill up her time and thoughts, involving her with kind of fuel the behaviour you're trying to avoid. I'd literally just end all contact until she gets the message (block on facebook, don't speak or invite her round). I know it sounds harsh but it's actually not: Doing the opposite is just leading her on. x
Haha omg this is a mirror of my friend who is also nick named ronnie Mitchell! It's so creepy isn't it! My friend (who I hardly see) says she needs the practice however she is still on the pill n dusnt want to leave her job to have a baby do why would she need practice! She wants to come round alll the time n calls my kids her children!!!
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