Warning tmi...i repeat tmi

jellybeanbaby · Apr 5th, 2012, 14:32 PM

ok i warned you

. i just had my baby(he is 18 days to be exact) and i'm wanting sex like crazy. I thought after having a baby your sex drive is low and even when you breastfeeding it is worst(or so i read) but not me. i didn't have a sex drive AT ALL when i was pregnant with him and didn't do it to much. I don't know if this is normal because when i google it low sex drive pops up. i'm not doing anything until my six weeks is up and the doctor give me the ok and not until i get on birth control(not looking to have anymore babies soon). I guess what i am asking is is it normal to feel like this? Is anyone else feeling this way or felt this way after having their lo.

loobylou99 · Apr 5th, 2012, 14:39 PM

I felt horny too

i couldnt wait to get on bc, neither of us fancied risking another pregnancy and didnt fully trust condoms

, ha!

CormacksGirl · Apr 5th, 2012, 14:40 PM

Hi hun, I was HORNY after having Adam but it soon settled down and now I'm too knackered to think about

LOL I think I calmed down after going back on the pill though!!!!!

Tanikins · Apr 5th, 2012, 14:46 PM

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Originally Posted by CormacksGirl

Hi hun, I was HORNY after having Adam but it soon settled down and now I'm too knackered to think about

LOL I think I calmed down after going back on the pill though!!!!!

I was exactly the same!!! I wanted to

4 days after with a minky that hurt to walk

we did it 3 weeks pp, same day as implant was fitted

Now though i just wanna sleep in my bed

Nikki B · Apr 5th, 2012, 14:55 PM

I'm jealous! It's been almost 3 months and I still have NO sex drive at all! My hubby pretty much humps my leg every night!

vintage67 · Apr 5th, 2012, 15:00 PM

It does happen. If you visit the Postnatal Support section on B&B you'll find lots of posts about ladies who "can't wait." My sister in law and her husband tore her episiotomy stitches and she promptly popped out two babies ten months apart as a result. Which was kind of gross, but they are kind of gross!

(that's a reflection on how we feel about them!

There's such a rush of hormones after birth it affects people differently.

bebedreamr · Apr 5th, 2012, 15:07 PM

oh ya! I am the same. During pregnancy I wasn't super interested, but after having my dd I wanted to do it so bad. We waited the 6 weeks, and it hurt like hell but I still want to do it! we have only been using condoms, which makes me nervous but i am breastfeeding so hoping that works until I get on the pill. Don't want anymore LO's for a few years!!

EarthMama · Apr 5th, 2012, 16:04 PM

SAME THING happened to me

Spunky · Apr 5th, 2012, 16:13 PM

I was SO HORNY, but then it went away after like 3 or 4 weeks pp. Didn't follow through on anything, I had a 3rd deg tear

MajellaG · Apr 5th, 2012, 16:31 PM

SAME!!!! As soon as my bleeding stopped I was in there!! 3ish weeks pp!! My sex drive is better now than pre pregnancy & I love it. TBH I think its the lack of birth control not messing with my hormones anymore. Just using condoms & its like every other day!!

I had a c-section tho I firmly believe that if I had a ncb I would not have been so interested.

Apr 5th, 2012, 14:32 PM	#1
jellybeanbaby Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 139	Warning tmi...i repeat tmi ok i warned you. i just had my baby(he is 18 days to be exact) and i'm wanting sex like crazy. I thought after having a baby your sex drive is low and even when you breastfeeding it is worst(or so i read) but not me. i didn't have a sex drive AT ALL when i was pregnant with him and didn't do it to much. I don't know if this is normal because when i google it low sex drive pops up. i'm not doing anything until my six weeks is up and the doctor give me the ok and not until i get on birth control(not looking to have anymore babies soon). I guess what i am asking is is it normal to feel like this? Is anyone else feeling this way or felt this way after having their lo.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 14:39 PM	#2
loobylou99 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Here there and everywhere Posts: 676	I felt horny too i couldnt wait to get on bc, neither of us fancied risking another pregnancy and didnt fully trust condoms , ha!

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Apr 5th, 2012, 14:40 PM	#3
CormacksGirl Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Bonny Scotland Posts: 2,653	Hi hun, I was HORNY after having Adam but it soon settled down and now I'm too knackered to think about LOL I think I calmed down after going back on the pill though!!!!!

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Nikki B Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: wisconsin Posts: 406	I'm jealous! It's been almost 3 months and I still have NO sex drive at all! My hubby pretty much humps my leg every night!

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vintage67 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Kentucky Posts: 2,399	It does happen. If you visit the Postnatal Support section on B&B you'll find lots of posts about ladies who "can't wait." My sister in law and her husband tore her episiotomy stitches and she promptly popped out two babies ten months apart as a result. Which was kind of gross, but they are kind of gross! (that's a reflection on how we feel about them! There's such a rush of hormones after birth it affects people differently.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 15:07 PM	#7
bebedreamr Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 610	oh ya! I am the same. During pregnancy I wasn't super interested, but after having my dd I wanted to do it so bad. We waited the 6 weeks, and it hurt like hell but I still want to do it! we have only been using condoms, which makes me nervous but i am breastfeeding so hoping that works until I get on the pill. Don't want anymore LO's for a few years!!

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Apr 5th, 2012, 16:04 PM	#8
EarthMama Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Kapoho, Hawaii Posts: 1,699	SAME THING happened to me

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Spunky Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: West Coast, USA Posts: 4,027	I was SO HORNY, but then it went away after like 3 or 4 weeks pp. Didn't follow through on anything, I had a 3rd deg tear

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Apr 5th, 2012, 16:31 PM	#10
MajellaG Other Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 422	SAME!!!! As soon as my bleeding stopped I was in there!! 3ish weeks pp!! My sex drive is better now than pre pregnancy & I love it. TBH I think its the lack of birth control not messing with my hormones anymore. Just using condoms & its like every other day!! I had a c-section tho I firmly believe that if I had a ncb I would not have been so interested.

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