They've cut her out of a photo! - Page 2

sandilion · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:36 AM

Your parents think you are being nasty?!! What the?

Nope.. follow your gut, if you feel things wont improve then do what you think is best for your LO. It definitely sounds horrid how they are acting towards a innocent little baby ... i don't know how people like that can sleep at night!!

Your parents think your LO being basically rejected is ok? And that you should let them all see her and have her exposed to that rubbish because 'they have a right to see her" ?

Sorry but that's a load of crap.

Babies and children can't fight for themselves in situations like this so you need to be mumma bear with this hun.

xdxxtx · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:47 AM

That is awful. I must say that my son gets pretty bad treatment from my OH's relatives... but cropping a baby out of a picture is on a whole other level. That's just messed up in so many ways.

I'm really sorry that your baby gets that kind of treatment from relatives. I hope things change soon.

highhopes19 · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by sandilion

Your parents think you are being nasty?!! What the?

Nope.. follow your gut, if you feel things wont improve then do what you think is best for your LO. It definitely sounds horrid how they are acting towards a innocent little baby ... i don't know how people like that can sleep at night!!

Your parents think your LO being basically rejected is ok? And that you should let them all see her and have her exposed to that rubbish because 'they have a right to see her" ?

Sorry but that's a load of crap.

Babies and children can't fight for themselves in situations like this so you need to be mumma bear with this hun.

I think their worried that my fil won't get to see her as when I mention it they say it's unfair on him.... I'm not keeping him or her uncle away... And even her aunt for that matter

I think it's now time me and oh have a serious chat about this Thankyou for the advise

xxx

BabyBoo36 · Apr 10th, 2012, 13:01 PM

I agree with the poster who said you have to protect your LO until they're old enough to do it themselves. We have just cut SIL out of our life, and we've had the "You're so mean, she has the right to see her" crap as well, but as I said back, I have the right to protect my daughter from negative, destructive influences while she is this young. End of.

Hope you get things sorted xx

Karlie06 · Apr 10th, 2012, 14:46 PM

Wow, thats pathetic behaviour! I agree with Babyboo, as her parent you have to protect her from negative and destructive behaviour like this. Your lo deserves so much better than this xx

Apr 10th, 2012, 08:36 AM	#11
sandilion Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 3,420	Your parents think you are being nasty?!! What the? Nope.. follow your gut, if you feel things wont improve then do what you think is best for your LO. It definitely sounds horrid how they are acting towards a innocent little baby ... i don't know how people like that can sleep at night!! Your parents think your LO being basically rejected is ok? And that you should let them all see her and have her exposed to that rubbish because 'they have a right to see her" ? Sorry but that's a load of crap. Babies and children can't fight for themselves in situations like this so you need to be mumma bear with this hun.

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xdxxtx Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: East Coast, USA Posts: 6,478	That is awful. I must say that my son gets pretty bad treatment from my OH's relatives... but cropping a baby out of a picture is on a whole other level. That's just messed up in so many ways. I'm really sorry that your baby gets that kind of treatment from relatives. I hope things change soon.

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BabyBoo36 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Lancashire, UK Posts: 1,842	I agree with the poster who said you have to protect your LO until they're old enough to do it themselves. We have just cut SIL out of our life, and we've had the "You're so mean, she has the right to see her" crap as well, but as I said back, I have the right to protect my daughter from negative, destructive influences while she is this young. End of. Hope you get things sorted xx

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Karlie06 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,008	Wow, thats pathetic behaviour! I agree with Babyboo, as her parent you have to protect her from negative and destructive behaviour like this. Your lo deserves so much better than this xx

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