Rude people

BigZai · Apr 14th, 2012, 00:27 AM

I went out with my mom today and LO fell asleep so i decided to just wait in the car. While i was waiting i saw someone put a cart right next to the my moms car. Yes it was against a pole but still seems disrespectful. So i opened my door enough to stick my head out and give the stink eye but i didnt say anything. I really wanted to but its not worth it you never know whose crazy enough to smash a window or even hurt me which pre LO i would have been up for a fight but now i dont get involved i am all he has (excluding my mom and sisters) do you know what i mean by that?

queenlavera · Apr 14th, 2012, 00:30 AM

Totally understand! A lot of things that I would have gotten verbal about I just let slide (as long as nobody physically tries me) having my LO and knowing that he needs me makes it not worth the trouble.

andella95 · Apr 14th, 2012, 00:36 AM

You'd hate me, lol. I've done that before. Usually when the return cart area is far away and I've already packed my children in the car and I don't want to leave them. (My four year old unbuckles himself and runs after me.)

You know what winds me up though? When in a parking lot, people stop and hold up all other traffic in the lot because they see someone getting into their car because their spot is closer and they don't want to walk far to get into the store. Seriously, it's more walking getting back to the end of the store to get milk than it is parking in a lot of the already open spots.

Drives me mad!

BigZai · Apr 14th, 2012, 00:42 AM

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Originally Posted by andella95

You'd hate me, lol. I've done that before. Usually when the return cart area is far away and I've already packed my children in the car and I don't want to leave them. (My four year old unbuckles himself and runs after me.)

You know what winds me up though? When in a parking lot, people stop and hold up all other traffic in the lot because they see someone getting into their car because their spot is closer and they don't want to walk far to get into the store. Seriously, it's more walking getting back to the end of the store to get milk than it is parking in a lot of the already open spots.

Drives me mad!

Well I have done it too

like when i was pregnant my feet went from a nine to sqeezing into a 11 not even exagerating. only reason it bothers me is because i was in the car
I know what you mean about holding up traffic such a pain in the but just WALK lol

vintage67 · Apr 14th, 2012, 00:43 AM

Oh my. I've done that before too with the cart. Same reason as Andella mentioned. It's kind of hard when the cart return is far away and you've got small kids in your car.

BigZai · Apr 14th, 2012, 00:49 AM

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Originally Posted by vintage67

Oh my. I've done that before too with the cart. Same reason as Andella mentioned. It's kind of hard when the cart return is far away and you've got small kids in your car.

Well there may have been kids with her but there were 3 other older ladies with her (20s-50s) and I have done it too i understand but I was in the car it was right next to me i could have opened the door and touched the cart.

andella95 · Apr 14th, 2012, 01:02 AM

Oh, the other day we were at walmart and when we came out, there was a big pickup parked right next to us - over the line. And the people were still inside and they had a baby in the backseat in a carrier. DH tried to put our boy in, but he couldn't even open the driver's side door. The people just sat there and watched us struggle. So DH had to back out of the parking space while I stood there with baby & DS to wait. After he backed out, the other people finally got out of their vehicle. They were waiting for US to move when they were the ones that parked next to us and over the line!

BigZai · Apr 14th, 2012, 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by andella95

Oh, the other day we were at walmart and when we came out, there was a big pickup parked right next to us - over the line. And the people were still inside and they had a baby in the backseat in a carrier. DH tried to put our boy in, but he couldn't even open the driver's side door. The people just sat there and watched us struggle. So DH had to back out of the parking space while I stood there with baby & DS to wait. After he backed out, the other people finally got out of their vehicle. They were waiting for US to move when they were the ones that parked next to us and over the line!

Just thoughtless

andella95 · Apr 14th, 2012, 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by BigZai

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Originally Posted by andella95

Oh, the other day we were at walmart and when we came out, there was a big pickup parked right next to us - over the line. And the people were still inside and they had a baby in the backseat in a carrier. DH tried to put our boy in, but he couldn't even open the driver's side door. The people just sat there and watched us struggle. So DH had to back out of the parking space while I stood there with baby & DS to wait. After he backed out, the other people finally got out of their vehicle. They were waiting for US to move when they were the ones that parked next to us and over the line!

Just thoughtless

Hm...no, they were thinking. About how they didn't want to have to move due to their crappy parking job, lol.

ahcigar1 · Apr 14th, 2012, 01:19 AM

I'm sorry but I am trying to figure out what the huge issue was with this? The cart was next to you, ok? It's not like they hit the car with it. Dunno maybe just me but don't see why this is a big deal.

Apr 14th, 2012, 00:30 AM	#2
queenlavera Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: PA, USA Posts: 1,144	Totally understand! A lot of things that I would have gotten verbal about I just let slide (as long as nobody physically tries me) having my LO and knowing that he needs me makes it not worth the trouble.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 00:36 AM	#3
andella95 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 2,023	You'd hate me, lol. I've done that before. Usually when the return cart area is far away and I've already packed my children in the car and I don't want to leave them. (My four year old unbuckles himself and runs after me.) You know what winds me up though? When in a parking lot, people stop and hold up all other traffic in the lot because they see someone getting into their car because their spot is closer and they don't want to walk far to get into the store. Seriously, it's more walking getting back to the end of the store to get milk than it is parking in a lot of the already open spots. Drives me mad!

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Apr 14th, 2012, 00:43 AM	#5
vintage67 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Kentucky Posts: 2,400	Oh my. I've done that before too with the cart. Same reason as Andella mentioned. It's kind of hard when the cart return is far away and you've got small kids in your car.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 01:02 AM	#7
andella95 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 2,023	Oh, the other day we were at walmart and when we came out, there was a big pickup parked right next to us - over the line. And the people were still inside and they had a baby in the backseat in a carrier. DH tried to put our boy in, but he couldn't even open the driver's side door. The people just sat there and watched us struggle. So DH had to back out of the parking space while I stood there with baby & DS to wait. After he backed out, the other people finally got out of their vehicle. They were waiting for US to move when they were the ones that parked next to us and over the line!

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Apr 14th, 2012, 01:19 AM	#10
ahcigar1 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: California Posts: 5,680	I'm sorry but I am trying to figure out what the huge issue was with this? The cart was next to you, ok? It's not like they hit the car with it. Dunno maybe just me but don't see why this is a big deal.

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