When I mentioned it to Mum she said the same about SS. I don't
Want to open a can of worms for my friend and her new baby if there is genuinely no cause. I don't think he'd ever hurt his baby. I just know I can't look at him ever the same again.
In most cases, SS has a phone number you can call and voice your concerns anonymously. I would just call and ask what they thought. The fact that the baby is in the bed and not in a cot or basket is what is unsettling.
Personally it seems weird to me...you'd think he would feel weird about it! But we have dtd with lo asleep in her bassinet next to us, and maybe some people would feel that was weird too. I don't necessarily think there is anything wrong with it, it's just weird to me. As for SS, I don't know about how things work where you live, but where I live in california they would not take that report (I'm a therapist and deal with SS all the time) THe parent would have to do something to harm a child. THey would take the report if the child was old enough to see what was happening, but not a 4 week old.
I think I may ask to pop round for coffee tomorrow and scratch the surface about this a little more. One part of me is completely weirded out, another is concerned for the little baby-id never live with myself if anything happened to her and I didn't do something to prevent it. Then again I don't want her to
Think I'm accusing her OH of being a pervert??
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