2 thick dark positives at 14 dpo...im scared

BLONDIE37 · Apr 4th, 2012, 04:32 AM

hi all i had a missed miscarriage last year at 11 weeks and a miscarriage in dec at 5 weeks....so we were putting off conceiving for a year as in three years i got pregnant twice and they both failed....im starting work friday and as i will be on a hospital ward i had to have my hep b vaccine and my mmr vaccing we had been using precautions so not to get pregnant then today something told me to test i am 14 dpo and i had two thick blue positive tests...i am panicing now incase the vaccines have done any harm to the fetus and its typical im about to start a new job lol so i will have to hide it for a while and pray this one sticks....anyone know if having the vaccines can cause damage it was not done on purpose as we were using precautions and they are right what they say if a little one is meant to be then there is nothing you can do about it lol talk about shock

lilacmonkey87 · Apr 4th, 2012, 04:53 AM

Hey,

dont know about the jabs but wanted to say congrats and sending you lots of sticky glue!

Im testing later on today as im also 14dpo...i had a second trimester loss with my first pregnancy in '09, got pregnant again in june '10 and now have a lovely sweet healthy one year old baba boy

i found out i was pregnant with my son just 2 weeks after being made redundant so yeah...when it happens, it happens. but you know its been the best time of my life

Try not to worry too much cause chances are that things will turn out fine, just enjoy it all

good luck with your new job also!

BLONDIE37 · Apr 4th, 2012, 04:58 AM

thank you so much

having a loss is so hard....im trying to relax....its the jobs that are worrying me but ive done some research and they said there is no solid evidence that they can effect the fetus so fingers crossed...im still in shock lol.....didnt expect this to happen especially when taking precautions lol xx

BLONDIE37 · Apr 4th, 2012, 04:59 AM

and fingers crossed for your bfp later

x

mamawananotha · Apr 4th, 2012, 07:10 AM

Congrats to you! Sorry you have a reason to worry about your baby.

I'm no doctor, but I do want to suggest that there are lots of things people do to their bodies that can cause harm to a fetus before they know they are pregnant. However, because their egg is so young and hasn't made all the connections to the placenta/umbilical cord is not formed/etc, there is some built-in natural protection to the baby. Maybe that can give some added peace of mind.

Congrats again! What happy news!

poweris3 · Apr 4th, 2012, 09:22 AM

Again, I don't know about the jabs and the risks but wanted to say congratulations.. hoping you have a healthy pregnancy

xx

Rosmuira · Apr 4th, 2012, 10:42 AM

Don't worry honey just go to doctors and get them to put you on progesterone pessaries to stop miscarriage and injections should be ok you prob are very early

Ps congrats xxxx

angel2010 · Apr 4th, 2012, 14:00 PM

Congrats!!!

v2007 · Apr 5th, 2012, 16:22 PM

Congratulations.

V xxx

toothfairy29 · Apr 6th, 2012, 10:28 AM

Hi there

Firstly a big congratulations!!
Also maybe I can offer some reassurance. I am a dentist and had to have Hep B booster and flu jabs a couple of months ago. I am on my 3rd pregnancy in 3 month (I know!!!!). When I had the jabs I wasn't pregnant but at some stage in the TTC process, I discussed at length with Occupational Health whether to have the jabs and was told no real evidence that they cause harm to baby. The big risk is more that you contract Hep B or flu or any of the MMR viruses whilst you're pregnant. I weighed up the evidence and decided that the benefits out weighed the tiny tiny risk.
I know everyone has their own opinion but I had them. I did not get pregnant the month I had them to put your mind at rest also, this wasn't the reason for any of the MCs.
Try not to worry flower. What's done is done and it seems this little on was on it's way for you this time with real determination!!! So good luck and relax x x x

Apr 4th, 2012, 04:32 AM	#1
BLONDIE37 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: south wales Posts: 75	2 thick dark positives at 14 dpo...im scared hi all i had a missed miscarriage last year at 11 weeks and a miscarriage in dec at 5 weeks....so we were putting off conceiving for a year as in three years i got pregnant twice and they both failed....im starting work friday and as i will be on a hospital ward i had to have my hep b vaccine and my mmr vaccing we had been using precautions so not to get pregnant then today something told me to test i am 14 dpo and i had two thick blue positive tests...i am panicing now incase the vaccines have done any harm to the fetus and its typical im about to start a new job lol so i will have to hide it for a while and pray this one sticks....anyone know if having the vaccines can cause damage it was not done on purpose as we were using precautions and they are right what they say if a little one is meant to be then there is nothing you can do about it lol talk about shock

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Apr 4th, 2012, 04:53 AM	#2
lilacmonkey87 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: lancs Posts: 119	Hey, dont know about the jabs but wanted to say congrats and sending you lots of sticky glue! Im testing later on today as im also 14dpo...i had a second trimester loss with my first pregnancy in '09, got pregnant again in june '10 and now have a lovely sweet healthy one year old baba boy i found out i was pregnant with my son just 2 weeks after being made redundant so yeah...when it happens, it happens. but you know its been the best time of my life Try not to worry too much cause chances are that things will turn out fine, just enjoy it all good luck with your new job also!

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Apr 4th, 2012, 04:58 AM	#3
BLONDIE37 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: south wales Posts: 75	thank you so much having a loss is so hard....im trying to relax....its the jobs that are worrying me but ive done some research and they said there is no solid evidence that they can effect the fetus so fingers crossed...im still in shock lol.....didnt expect this to happen especially when taking precautions lol xx

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Apr 4th, 2012, 04:59 AM	#4
BLONDIE37 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: south wales Posts: 75	and fingers crossed for your bfp later x

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Apr 4th, 2012, 07:10 AM	#5
mamawananotha Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 155	Congrats to you! Sorry you have a reason to worry about your baby. I'm no doctor, but I do want to suggest that there are lots of things people do to their bodies that can cause harm to a fetus before they know they are pregnant. However, because their egg is so young and hasn't made all the connections to the placenta/umbilical cord is not formed/etc, there is some built-in natural protection to the baby. Maybe that can give some added peace of mind. Congrats again! What happy news!

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Apr 4th, 2012, 09:22 AM	#6
poweris3 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Co Durham Posts: 53	Again, I don't know about the jabs and the risks but wanted to say congratulations.. hoping you have a healthy pregnancy xx

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Apr 4th, 2012, 10:42 AM	#7
Rosmuira Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: ireland Posts: 223	Don't worry honey just go to doctors and get them to put you on progesterone pessaries to stop miscarriage and injections should be ok you prob are very early Ps congrats xxxx

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Apr 4th, 2012, 14:00 PM	#8
angel2010 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 14,711	Congrats!!!

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Apr 5th, 2012, 16:22 PM	#9
v2007 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 29,371	Congratulations. V xxx

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Apr 6th, 2012, 10:28 AM	#10
toothfairy29 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,817	Hi there Firstly a big congratulations!! Also maybe I can offer some reassurance. I am a dentist and had to have Hep B booster and flu jabs a couple of months ago. I am on my 3rd pregnancy in 3 month (I know!!!!). When I had the jabs I wasn't pregnant but at some stage in the TTC process, I discussed at length with Occupational Health whether to have the jabs and was told no real evidence that they cause harm to baby. The big risk is more that you contract Hep B or flu or any of the MMR viruses whilst you're pregnant. I weighed up the evidence and decided that the benefits out weighed the tiny tiny risk. I know everyone has their own opinion but I had them. I did not get pregnant the month I had them to put your mind at rest also, this wasn't the reason for any of the MCs. Try not to worry flower. What's done is done and it seems this little on was on it's way for you this time with real determination!!! So good luck and relax x x x

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