No futher wedding plans - saw so many weddings by chance at the weekend though, it was so nice, I finally had nice wedding thoughts again ( i did get a bit cynical after the divorce). I'm shocked, I am actually getting quite excited! We really need to set a date now lol
Yay for contemplating a date! That made it very real for us lol. Although I didn't have a set date in mind, I just knew I wanted our wedding to be in September, and basically whatever venue was free is what we took!
Yeah well, I mentioned the wedding and OH was a bit, *umph*, like not really bothered on the idea's front. So I said to him he must of imagined at some point something about him getting married that he would like and he said yeah. Here I was thinking there was some progress and then he said . . . the honeymoon. So, erm . . . yeah.
Tbh, P wasn't really "excited" about it either. He really didn't have a clue when it came to all the stuff we had to do. In fact, I pretty much had said "yes" to our venue (after the first one we wanted ended up not being able to work) and he hadn't seen it yet!
Is he just not a planner? Maybe if you call some places, get some firm numbers and dates available and then ask him which one he wants? Unless you have a set day in mind. We originally wanted the 23rd of September as our anniversary is the 22nd, and we thought that was neat. It wasn't available in the venue we chose, but the 10th was. Its kind of neat and I didn't even think about it until one of my friends pointed out that our anniversary will be 9-10-11.
I think my main worry is that he won't be excited on the day - if I could arrange it and know he would be happy then that would be perfect lol It sounds sad but I don't want to be lonely on my wedding day again, its my biggest fear this time. I want to feel special and that we can both be happy and share the moment together. My first Wedding day, everyone said it was a 'great do' and technically is was - except I was lonley, my friends all dissapeared outside but none included me, my OH hung out with his mates, who were supposed to be our mates but I just ended up walking all over trying to find people and so I just ended up going around and meeting and greeting all the guests by myself (family etc) and he just wasn't bothered, was too caught up in the party atmosphere. Which in a way is good, but I did not enjoy it at all. The food 10/10, venue 10/10 etc everything was fine except the groom! (well obviously now but even at the time lol).
I think I just want to feel settled in that, no matter how/where etc, he is happy becasue we are getting married and that is that. Not another excuse for a party and a holiday! Plus, it would be nice to hear it from him without being prompted!
I can't decided between April / May or September time. I would love October but my Sis got married in October and our LO was born on Halloween so don't want to add another date in. Plus so many birthdays October onwards lol I had the same kind of problem first time around too with the dates so I'm not 100% set on a day - that is a pretty cool date for you though 9-10-11!! Awsome!
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