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Apr 13th, 2012, 10:21 AM
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Nosey questions from a b2b

Was just wondering how long you and your OH had been dating before you or he popped the question?
Also how long you waited whist engaged to actually get married?
And a really mosey question...how old you are?

My reasons for asking is because me and OH we're only together 6 months when he asked me to marry him...... We moved in together 3 months after dating and have on,y been engaged a year but I'm planning our wedding for next June 2013.

OH wanted to get married the week after we got engaged....and still feels the same now but I felt because of what other people would say I'd rather wait untl we are together longer.
I'm only 21 so when we get married i Will be 23 and OH will only be 21. After reading around anyone that has got married at our age is because they have been together for 5+ years.....
Everyone knows we plan to get married next year but I get embarrassed when we tell them because I feel As soon as we leave they are all saying 'they are too young it won't last' which is stupid I know.
It shouldn't really matter what others think it just feels like on the day of the wedding people will be taking bets 'I give it 2 years max' I don't know why I feel this way...it's what me and Liam want...I guess I worry to much about what other people think!!!

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We got together in May 2008, got engaged in September 2010 (after 2.5 years) and are getting married in September 2013, by then we will have been together for 5.5 years and engaged for 3.

We're also quite young, I'm 21 and OH is 23. When we get married we will be 22 and 25.

Don't worry about what other people think, as long as it feels right for you and your OH that's all that matters, every couple is different and will do things at different times

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I don't think there is anything wrong with quick/short engagements

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okay this is how it started we met just about 7 years ago.. we were in highschool.. but he lived 45 min away and we didnt want to do the long distance thing so we both were in relationships with differant people but fooling around with each other (we were 15) than we broke up with those people and started dating each other but we had already made plans that we were going to sum day get married and have a family... we were together 3.5 years i think it was before we did the official engagement and planned to get married so after, but the problem we didnt know was i was pregnant.. so after we found out we post-poned the wedding.. so we have been engaged for 3 years (almost 3 years) when we finally get married... we have been together for 6 (april 25th) and we are 22 years old (well i am 22 he is 21 he will be 22 on april 24th).. hehe

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ok been together nealy 5 years in september and we skipped engagement and are getting married in june lol im 22 this year

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I will be 27 when we get hitched n my OH will be almost 26

Personally I don't think how long you've been together/engaged matters,if it's meant to be its meant to be!My OH proposed when he did cause he just knew I was the one!!

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We'll have been together just over 2 years when we marry

I am 27, he is 33.

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