Has anyone had a brutal forceps delivery and an c section?
Which one was better to recover from?
Ds2 was dragged out by forceps, took me over a year to feel normal again down below and I dont think I'll ever recover fully mentally. Now im pregnant again and want to see where i stand for elective c section but also worried about the recovery!
I've not had a section but like you I had quite a traumatic forceps delivery with no1. It took me a long time to recover and to be honest I'm still not the same as I was before! I'm feeling the same with this one, should I have an elective section this time?
Have you spoken to the midwife about it? Are they giving you the option?
Not exactly but I have a low lying placenta so I've to wait and see if that moves up otherwise I'll need a section anyway but after my first birth the doctor did say if I wanted a section next time around it shouldn't be an issue. I'm waiting out til my 32 week scan regarding the placenta then I'll have to think seriously about it.
I had a ventouse delivery with my son because my weak epidural pushes weren't doing the trick. This time around i have a low placenta, so may not have the choice. I'd love a shot at a 'better' vaginal delivery and the thought of a section scares the crap out of me.
Ahh fingers crosses you get your wish..
i had ventouse first time - i hadnt had any pain relief so not sure what the problem was with. With ds2 i had an epidural.. but needed forceps that time. He was 10lb 1oz though.
They think this time it could go bigger hence why I'm not keen!
I have had both a forceps and a c section, I am booked for another c section in 10 days time. my forceps recovery was awful, stitches got infected and came apart, was two months before I could sit down and I still don't feel completely right 7 years on, I opted for a c section 2nd time around and consultant agreed I could have one, recovery was much easier, I think because you know you've had surgery you automatically take it easier I was up and about a few days later and no pain after a week. Hoping this next c section will be the same!
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