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Old Feb 21st, 2012, 14:33 PM   1
shel030785
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Would you choose a C-section again?


I had an emergency C-section with my little girl due to failure to progress after 23hours of established Labour (hell on earth) Now with my next baby My doctor says I have a choice wether to try for a natural birth or I can opt for a C-section again. Would you choose a C-section again if given the option? xxxx



 
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Old Feb 21st, 2012, 14:43 PM   2
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I personally would go for the vbac, after having an emergency c section followed by two successful v bacs, but you really need to way up the pros and cons for yourself maybe discussing it with your midwife may help



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Old Feb 21st, 2012, 14:50 PM   3
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I dont know i dont like the idea of another c sec as recovery for me was awful and next time i will have 2 chldren to look after most probably newborn and toddler so vbac would be better in that respect but then im terrified of uterine rupture so that puts me off vbac.

I think i will probably talk to the consultant in my next pregnancy and go with whatever they think is best then it is out of my hands so to speak and i dont have to keep going between the two and driving myself crazy!



 
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Old Feb 21st, 2012, 15:08 PM   4
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I'm so torn. I was a bit traumatised by the emcs but got through it. I'm scared something will go wrong with a VBAC. I have an irrational fear that baby will get stuck! I also have ulcerative colitis so not sure if a vaginal birth would make this worse? Eek it's such a difficult thing to decide. I'd have to discuss it with a midwife/doctor I think.



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Old Feb 22nd, 2012, 00:50 AM   5
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I'm such a scaredy squirrel that a VBAC terrifies me and I recovered decently from my C-section but I don't know. I will wait until I"m actually pregnant again and see what my doctor says.



 
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Old Feb 22nd, 2012, 00:54 AM   6
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After much discussion and research I want an elective csection after my previous emergency section because my experience last time was awful and in my opinion they let me labour too long before deciding on the surgery. Trouble is that my dr wants me to have a vbac so I have a fight on my hands to get my elective!



 
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Old Feb 22nd, 2012, 04:02 AM   7
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I had an emergency c section with my first after a failed induction at 42 weeks, and this time was given the choice. It took me literally 30 weeks to make my mind up, but have gone for the elective section option as I am more scared of having to undergo another emergency section after possibly hours of labour.
This way I feel like I have *some* small element of control over the birth experience. Yes, recovery is a bit rubbish, but I don't know any different having never gone through natural labour and delivery and I can plan things and I know what I'm letting myself in for!
I am being sectioned at 39 weeks, however I have the option to change my mind at ANY time, and if I was to go into labour before then, I have the option of seeing how it goes. Personally the idea of being continually monitored during labour puts me off. I know you can refuse it, but they do it for a reason and I would rather my little one arrived safe and sound. It doesn't really matter how they get here in the end.
Also, knowing that it would be a section anyway if I went overdue, made my mind up for me. Induction isn't allowed after previous c sects at my hospital, so instead of waiting until possibly 42 weeks again, I know what date she's going to be here and can plan accordingly!
Go with your gut feeling, I did, and as soon as I made my mind up I felt SO much better! I was driving myself mad looking up the pros and cons of vbac vs elective, and reading horror stories on google didn't help! Know that you can always change your mind at any time. Sorry that was a bit of an essay, but I hope it helped! :-)



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Old Feb 22nd, 2012, 08:19 AM   8
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In all honesty, I'd only have a section again if I "had to"... If I knew my baby was under 8lbs and everything was going smoothly I'd much rather a VBAC!

Reason being that the section recovery is so bloody painful!

If I suspected a large baby I'd have a section again in a flash as I won't put my baby at risk of a shoulder dystocia delivery which happened with my second baby who for some reason was quite large.



 
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Old Feb 22nd, 2012, 09:15 AM   9
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Not sure my section was an elective for breech so a totally different experience and a great one. Id say for ease id have another section as Ive recovered V well but part of me wants to experience a natural birth so id be tempted to go for that, but Id have no issues having another section x



 
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Old Feb 22nd, 2012, 11:58 AM   10
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Well after 48hrs of back to back labour then an emergency c section where he got stuck and had to be pulled out with forceps by the registrar i'm not sure. I think I'll book an elective then ask for a late scan to see how big the baby was and what position it was in. There's no way I could do that labour again.



 
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