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Old Jan 4th, 2017, 10:43 AM   21
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I still am torn with this it isn't helped by my close friend being 30 weeks pregnant and not enjoying being pregnant or excited about being pregnant yet I long to feel baby kick and snuggle a newborn (my newborn) but that will never happen again :sad:



 
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Old Jan 4th, 2017, 14:20 PM   22
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I still am torn with this it isn't helped by my close friend being 30 weeks pregnant and not enjoying being pregnant or excited about being pregnant yet I long to feel baby kick and snuggle a newborn (my newborn) but that will never happen again :sad:
I know the feeling! When we found out my husband's brother and his wife were expecting. When I finally did see them. I said, "I here congrats are in order." Her reply was, "If you want to put it that way. I didn't and don't want to be pregnant." It was such a cruel joke on me to have been due weeks before her and her not even wanting the baby. They don't even take care of their kids. They either have them in day care or my in laws take care of them. I stayed home to take care of my kids.



 
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Old Jan 11th, 2017, 14:24 PM   23
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Another one here struggling too. I think about having a 3rd constantly and it makes me feel so guilty... I should be enjoying the 2 I've got and making the most if them being so young. I haven't even spoken properly to DH about it because I'm sure he'll say no and I'm not ready to hear or accept that yet. We need to move house first anyway but I'm 35 in April and feel like time is slowly running out for me.
I've got a neice due anytime and a neice or nephew due in May. I'm very happy for them but so jealous at the same time!



 
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Old Feb 12th, 2017, 00:23 AM   24
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My DH and I just had a discussion and looks like we will now be complete too (not my choice at all). We have 4 LO's and it's kind of what needs to happen as we are having a hard time giving them all the attention they need. I love my kids and am so greatful for them but I am SO SAD, like tears streaming down my face sad that this is it for us. I love being pregnant and I love newborns and I'm so so sad that chapter in my life has come to an end.
I don't know what/how accepting this will get easier, I'm having such a tough time with this.



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Old Feb 27th, 2017, 16:07 PM   25
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Am I glad I've found you ladies !! I drive myself crazy !! My LO is coming up to her first b day and my son has just turned 3 . I really really really want another . Iday dream all the time about it I'm so green with jealousy when people tell me they are pg ! I loved EVERYHTING about it and the babies ..... Oooh the babies

No real hope of it happening again, I'm too old and oh say " the shop is closed " lol....
Ah well , ill just have to day dream and hope for a miricle not giving up till menapause
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Sometimes I just think I couldn't handle any more. I definitely couldn't at the moment. But I would love to have another one in a few years time. My husband doesn't want to do I'm just hoping as mine grow up I will move away from all the baby stuff



 
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Sometimes I just think I couldn't handle any more. I definitely couldn't at the moment. But I would love to have another one in a few years time. My husband doesn't want to do I'm just hoping as mine grow up I will move away from all the baby stuff
I'm in the same boat. Couldn't handle more right now but in a year or 2 would love one more although DH is not wanting more.



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Old Mar 5th, 2017, 15:45 PM   28
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I would also love another in a few years; heck I'd love another now but having another in a few years when my other 3 are all at school would be awesome so that I could immerse myself in the baby stage more during the day. But DH is adamant that he doesn't want any more and won't in the future, and I'm coming to terms with that better than I thought I would; some dreams are just meant to be dreams.



 
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Old Mar 7th, 2017, 06:16 AM   29
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The final is such a weird feeling. I've really battled this recently again ... I'd love another but so many reasons say no: for selfish reasons, practical reasons, financial reasons, for the girls I have now and the ages they are (how it would effect them etc), my age, my age in x many years ... the lists goes on and has grew with the years and they definitely sway in the direction of yer ok it would be lovely but no (haha) yet that no makes me GULP. I think the gulp is natural for most women. x



 
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Old Mar 7th, 2017, 15:32 PM   30
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The final is such a weird feeling. I've really battled this recently again ... I'd love another but so many reasons say no: for selfish reasons, practical reasons, financial reasons, for the girls I have now and the ages they are (how it would effect them etc), my age, my age in x many years ... the lists goes on and has grew with the years and they definitely sway in the direction of yer ok it would be lovely but no (haha) yet that no makes me GULP. I think the gulp is natural for most women. x
The final one really is tough. I'm hoping mb DH one day might change his mind but like you there are more reasons not to have another then there are reasons to just go for it.
Doesn't help that everyone I know basically is just STARTING to have kids (I started having kids alot younger than most of my peers). Also doesn't help that our neighbourhood friend just had her 5th baby a month ago and is already planning her 6th (all her kids are 12-18 months apart, it definitely makes me feel jealous).

At the moment it's not easy...hoping one day I will be content with not wanting another.



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