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Old Jan 9th, 2017, 11:24 AM   11
LoraLoo
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I don't feel complete, but it may be because of the little ones ive lost and I'll always feel that way if I had 10 more babies.
I was adamant Nellie was my last, I pushed hubby to get referred for the snip which he did. He then missed the telephone appt and hasnt rebooked.
My head says its sensible to stop now, for a number of reasons, but every day I think about having another baby.



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2017, 12:26 PM   12
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Being that I was 32 when I met my hubby and became a full time mom to his daughter, I wasn't totally sure I even wanted a child of my own (I'd always thought I would- but never expected to be single for all those years in my 20's). Then, after being a mom to our oldest and getting married- I felt the need to have one from "scratch". But due to hurdles and fertility issues, I was 37 when I had our little. And now, at 43, I cannot imagine having another... there are times I think about it (as I always wanted two closer together when I was younger- and I'll never know what it's like to have a son- but our little felt like the final puzzle piece to our family)... Plus, life worked out this way for a reason. And, if I had been younger when I had kids- then I wouldn't have the life I have now. Which I cannot imagine any other way.



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2017, 14:56 PM   13
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I don't feel complete, but it may be because of the little ones ive lost and I'll always feel that way if I had 10 more babies.
I was adamant Nellie was my last, I pushed hubby to get referred for the snip which he did. He then missed the telephone appt and hasnt rebooked.
My head says its sensible to stop now, for a number of reasons, but every day I think about having another baby.
I think this is true with me too. We have had two losses and have 3 LOs but part of me always thinks it should be 5. But I guess even if we had 10 like you say I'd just think it should be 12. And if we did have more at my age the chances of another loss are getting higher.



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2017, 12:10 PM   14
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I don't have much of a choice - medically infertile with two miracles.

I'd love a third child but it won't happen without serious medical help with far reaching consequences



 
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