Ladies thanks so much for your replies, lynz I had a look at that lactaid thinfy... fascinating! I can see how that would work if you needed to improve milk supply or were able to continue bfing longer term and use this as a way to supplement if baby won't take s bottle, bur I'm not sure this would benefit us, as I need Danny to take formula from either a bottle or cup, for when I go back to work

. It goes against every feeling in every bone of mt body; I am terribly sad about going back to work, but I have to financially.
As an update I have been trying every few days with various bottles and cups, with both ebm and formula. Still no luck so far, but I think all I can do is persevere. I guess the worst case scenario is he doesn't have any milk in the day and gets by with a breastfeed morning and again at night, when I'm back at work.
Will keep you posted girls xxx