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Old Jan 31st, 2017, 05:26 AM   11
Emma&Freya
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Are you UK?
Yes I'm in UK

Thank you so much for your replies.

Freya's rainbow promise went so well,. She told me she had butterflies in her belly whilst she done it. So proud of her!

I'm looking forward to him throwing the full custody comment at me again cos I feel stronger now.

Hopefully I'll be on the mortgage come April time.

I can't even say he's a good dad anymore which breaks my heart



 
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Old Jan 31st, 2017, 10:26 AM   12
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He strikes again! The one night he can have one on one time with the girls so I can go out, he's buggered of to Blackburn!!!



 
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Old Jan 31st, 2017, 20:32 PM   13
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Oh lovely, I'm so sorry to hear this is still going on.

I don't have much legal advice being here in the US but I do know he would never get full custody. I'll be thinking of you and hoping everything works out.



 
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Old Feb 1st, 2017, 06:48 AM   14
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Thank you.

He's forgotten Freya's birthday 😢 He's booked meetings cos nothing was on that day 😭😭



 
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Old Feb 1st, 2017, 07:34 AM   15
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That's awful, I'm so sorry for you and your daughters



 
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Old Feb 1st, 2017, 08:46 AM   16
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oh hun, I'm so sorry



 
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Old Feb 1st, 2017, 13:15 PM   17
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That is absolutely awful

So sorry this is happening love. Where are you in the UK? If you're near the Midlands, if you ever needed a natter and a coffee I have an ear! (Hope that doesn't sound weird? Lol!)

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Old Feb 2nd, 2017, 15:32 PM   18
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What a twat he is if he can't even remember his daughter's birthday! Sorry, but I'd be so upset.



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2017, 04:27 AM   19
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Are you UK?
Yes I'm in UK

Just mirroring everybody's replies, if it came to divorce everything you both own is counted as joint property and is split equally, the judge would give you possession of the house as main carer for the children, he may say that when your children leave education that the house then be sold and split between you.

What kind of work is he doing? Do you think if his business suddenly took off that he would be a changed man and spend the next 50 years giving you and your children all his time and attention and thank you daily for sticking by him when he was trying to get things off the ground? or is he just changed with no way back? It would be sad to think that with the pressure off that a family had been split. Is there anything you can do to get involved in the business? x



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2017, 06:42 AM   20
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I have no advice at all but just massive hugs - my oh is very similar although in credit to him he wouldn't forget our sons birthdays. This time last year I looked seriously into getting a divorce but was so over whelmed by it all I couldn't face it. I hope you have people around to support you x x



 
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