I'm sad to hear your story in relation to your married life. I think, issues in marriages and relationship are normal. Maybe , you should have a heart to heart talk with your husband and let him know how you feel. Sorry to say that it sounds like your husband kinda care for himself first than your family.
He's forgotten Freya's birthday He's booked meetings cos nothing was on that day
That is shocking. Being a "business man" is NO excuse. My husband was working in the Falklands for our eldest's birthday, he set his alarm for 3am so he could call our son when he woke up. Being busy is no excuse for being a bad parent.
Hi everyone just wanted to give you all a little update!
Well, Freyas birthday came and I literally had to force him to stay at home in the morning so he could watch her open her presents. I was getting moaned at because of what Id got her. I have her little mix tickets and he says shes too young (she will be closer to 6 when we go) Im going with my sisters too.
Well, he never got intouch all day, I then took the girls and my Mum out for tea, once again I was moaned at because why couldn't we go about 9pm, (girls are in bed by 6.30!)
He worked a lot after that and didn't see the girls for about 7 weeks. When he did see them he was so moody! Ive told him he needs to sort his priorities out because its not fair anymore.
Atleast I can hold my hands up and say Ive tried everything,
I said to him last night, have you heard how Mia sasy she loves you? Because Mia couldn't talk last year, she comes out now with little sayings so means so much to me. He said no she hasn't said she loves me
Mia had a hospital appointment end of March, he never came. She has to go back to ENT urgently because it looks like she cant hear again. Been told he cant commit to anything again!
Feel so alone, but on the otherside to it I no I can cope if anything did go pear shaped
How awful for you and your girls, he sounds like he doesn't deserve anything, he really sounds like a selfish waste of space. It doesn't sound like you can count on him for anything, I would take all the support you can from family and friends and let go. Its such a pity for your little girls, but he is not making any effort and there is nothing you can do to change that. You are strong and can cope, and if you need help from family and friends take it, its better than burning yourself out
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