My OH is stressing me. I make all the decisions and plan everything. Left to him nothing would get done until 2 seconds before!!!
He's a great guy but it stresses me a bit.
We're planning our wedding and I've made every arrangement so far. Today I've booked the hotel, booked the registrar, found my dress and the brisemaids and planned the menu. Then I come home to tell him we've got an appointment with the registrar and he tells me he doesn't have a birth certificate
But this is my fault because he told me a few days ago that he didn't.
Is this a common occurence? I'm wondering if its just my fella or all men
i think most men are not really bothered about wedding plans. we make all financial decisions together thou and try to discuss most things together. i wouldnt worry if hes not into the the menu or flowers etc but if it hurts your feelings then id just tell him u really want his input.
I don't mind that I've done the arrangements... I've checked everything with him, its just that he's made it my fault that he can't do the one thing I've asked him to do (locate his birth certificate or get a new one!)
Ah yes, wedding plans!! Remember it well!! DH and I discuss everything together - even when I was planning the wedding, he always wanted to put his input and we discussed what would work/what wouldn't work, etc.
i think a lot of men are like that. i have planned and post poned two weddings, and oh has had nothing to do with the planning except for the ring he wanted, and he went with me to apply for the marriage license, and that is all. in everyday life, i make all financial decisions. he leaves everything up to me, which is good because he is terrible with money. he makes it, i manage it lol. also, my oh blames me for everything as well. claims he tells me things when he doesnt really.
Well it depends what its in regards too! Lately OH has been making all financial decisions as I seem to have gone a bit 'baby overboard' and can't stop spending! He's a bit more responsible when it comes to that stuff lately! Oops hehe
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