Dont know what to think - Page 2

tasha41 · Apr 4th, 2012, 01:28 AM

It depends on the 2 people, their relationship, etc. I'd probably worry about my sister anyway though too... natural when they take first steps toward adulthood I think

Kielee · Apr 4th, 2012, 09:41 AM

Myself and OH moved in together when I was 17 and he was nearly 20 and almost 10 years later we are still together

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morri · Apr 4th, 2012, 10:14 AM

I more or less moved to my oh (well not really moved in but staying most of the time) right after we were together, which has the pre-history of my oh's flat having been a lot closer to university.

Baby France · Apr 4th, 2012, 14:59 PM

I think it depends on them as a couple.

I can understand your concerns, but I've known people who were married within 6 weeks of their first date?

At the end of the day, we all learn from life experiences. This could either be a life experience for her, or her happily ever after?

If they are both happy and can afford it...its up to them!

Feltzy · Apr 5th, 2012, 10:40 AM

I moved in with my OH after only a few months, we were spending every day together anyway so it just seemed like a natural progression. I don't think there is a right or wrong, it depends what they feel comfortable with and how comfortable they are with eachother.

Lubbird · Apr 5th, 2012, 14:38 PM

I don't think you can set a 'right time' for everyone. As long as they have enough money for moving costs, can support themselves long term, and have a generally good relationship then hopefully things will go well for them

suzib76 · Apr 5th, 2012, 15:15 PM

its either going to work or its not, and i dont think moving in together at any given time will affect it tbh

i moved in with a guy when i was 17 after about 5 months and it didnt work, i moved in with dh when i was 24 straight away and we have now been married 10 years

mandy81 · Apr 5th, 2012, 16:06 PM

I moved in with OH 2 years after meeting him but I was 7 months pregnant with sophie-lou

13 years later we're still together and have another child of 6

I think if they feel it's right then they should go for it xx

shellideaks · Apr 5th, 2012, 16:10 PM

OH moved in properly with me literally 2 weeks after we started going out. One day he came round after work and he just never left lol. Wouldn't have it any other way

Mummytobe85 · Apr 6th, 2012, 14:05 PM

I got engaged to my DH after a year of dating and then moved into together a year and 8 months later - we've been together almost 4 years in August

Apr 4th, 2012, 01:28 AM	#11
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: The True North Strong & Free Posts: 25,631	It depends on the 2 people, their relationship, etc. I'd probably worry about my sister anyway though too... natural when they take first steps toward adulthood I think

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Apr 4th, 2012, 09:41 AM	#12
Kielee Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 914	Myself and OH moved in together when I was 17 and he was nearly 20 and almost 10 years later we are still together xx

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Apr 4th, 2012, 10:14 AM	#13
morri Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Hamburg(Germany) Posts: 7,525	I more or less moved to my oh (well not really moved in but staying most of the time) right after we were together, which has the pre-history of my oh's flat having been a lot closer to university.

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Apr 4th, 2012, 14:59 PM	#14
Baby France Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Cuckoo Land! Posts: 9,660	I think it depends on them as a couple. I can understand your concerns, but I've known people who were married within 6 weeks of their first date? At the end of the day, we all learn from life experiences. This could either be a life experience for her, or her happily ever after? If they are both happy and can afford it...its up to them!

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Feltzy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Batley, UK Posts: 3,024	I moved in with my OH after only a few months, we were spending every day together anyway so it just seemed like a natural progression. I don't think there is a right or wrong, it depends what they feel comfortable with and how comfortable they are with eachother.

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Lubbird Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 1,203	I don't think you can set a 'right time' for everyone. As long as they have enough money for moving costs, can support themselves long term, and have a generally good relationship then hopefully things will go well for them

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suzib76 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: x scotland x Posts: 6,704	its either going to work or its not, and i dont think moving in together at any given time will affect it tbh i moved in with a guy when i was 17 after about 5 months and it didnt work, i moved in with dh when i was 24 straight away and we have now been married 10 years

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mandy81 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: UK Posts: 8,424	I moved in with OH 2 years after meeting him but I was 7 months pregnant with sophie-lou 13 years later we're still together and have another child of 6 I think if they feel it's right then they should go for it xx

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shellideaks Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Widnes, UK Posts: 1,848	OH moved in properly with me literally 2 weeks after we started going out. One day he came round after work and he just never left lol. Wouldn't have it any other way

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Mummytobe85 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Kent Posts: 1,046	I got engaged to my DH after a year of dating and then moved into together a year and 8 months later - we've been together almost 4 years in August

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