I only want 1. I'll probably change my mind but I dunno. I just like the idea of having one child, and having a bond with it and it being the centre of attention etc. My mum is really anti-one child families because she's all "it'll be a spoilt brat" and all this crap but my little sister turned out that way anyway so how she can judge I'll never know! It's also for selfish reasons such as I've already put my 'career' and life on hold to have this one and I want to give it the best start in life possible so I don't want to go back to full-time work until it starts school (I'm going to work nights etc) and so I'm going to re-start my career then, if I had another, I'd be looking at waiting 7-8 years to start my career and I don't want that, and we can't really afford it either. We'd also have to move house if we had more.
I think hubby wants more but I'm happy just to have one for now
We want two but have said if we have two of the same flavour, we will try for a third and then be done with it....could handle it if they were all boys but daren't even think if we ended up with all girls....eek!!
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