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Old Dec 24th, 2011, 03:15 AM   31
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Hey littlemama. I m sorry you re going through this but i will have to agree with your decision...it is too early to hear hb...i ve never heard hb before week 7 and i ve been pg 4 times (only 3 times heard hb, the one time i didnt they couldnt even find yolk sac at 6 weeks). A few days off your ov dates or the implantation date can make a HUGE difference at this stage so if i were you i d wait. At the end of the day it is only 1 week, if youcan find a hb then you can rethink it. I m here for you if you need support and for now all i ll say is congrats on your bfp!
Ow and ps:although i am way ahead i bled and spotted for 2 weeks (12-14) and baba is just fine. With bu bleeding or spotting can come from the non pregnant side as it doesnt understand the pg and tries to shed its lining.i spotted on w7 with my son and he s now jumping around (19month old!)



 
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Old Dec 24th, 2011, 08:52 AM   32
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I didn't even know that you could do that with a BU gosh the gyno I saw told me nothing just said this is what you have your pregnancy isn't viable and you need a d&c and was rude and had absolutely no compassion what so ever like really you just told me that my baby is gone and your trying to push me for a d&c and have me out the door! I went back to my own doc and had him refer me for a ultrasound and hcg test as even he was a bit skeptical as to whether I had lost bub so I guess I find out on Thursday 29th dec fingers crossed I see a little jellybean and beautiful little heart beating
Good luck to all you wonderful mummies to be xx
And baby dust to all you lovely ladies trying to become a mummy! Xx



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Old Dec 24th, 2011, 11:24 AM   33
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I really hope you see bub swimming around on thursday and you prove those docs wrong. For the non pregnant side to shed its linining is quite common with bu but some docs are really ignorant. The first doc i went before i was even ph told me i d never be able to have children and even if i conceived which would be extremely difficult i would lose the baby. Well it s never taken me more than 3 months to get pg and my son proves he was wrong. And i say sod them...if you feel inside you bub is there listen to noone, and keep repeating to yourself it s all gonna be ok!please keep us updated. I have another scan on the 28th to see how the haematoma on the left side is and to see whether we can put in a cerclage!



 
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Old Dec 26th, 2011, 06:13 AM   34
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thankyou so much you have given me more information than any doctor has i am still spotting everyday it never enough for a pad only when i wipe it will be 3 weeks of it on thursday its starting to drive me nuts :/ and it took me 2 months to fall me and fiance tried one month and then thought we should probally wait till after we get married ( we get married in jan 2012) and then we didnt try the next month and next thing i know i have alittle jelly bean on the way i am just worried something is wrong with bubby and i will lose him/her..



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Old Dec 26th, 2011, 12:56 PM   35
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You wont...i dont want to give you false hopes but a)i have bleeding and spotting for 18 days now and baba is just fine, b) there is a perfect explanatiob for your spottinf and c) if you werr miscarrying you d think it would have happened by now you wouldnt be just lightly spotting. Have you done another hpt?
It is a wonderful surprise and present for your marriage, congrats, i m sure it will be an absolutely amaZing day!!!



 
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Old Dec 26th, 2011, 20:24 PM   36
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no i didnt even think to do another hpt i had my levels done two weeks ago through blood and it was 20000 but wasnt sure if my levels would have dropped enough if i have miscarried to get a neg hpt oh gosh so confused be glad when thursday is here and i find out for sure
thankyou so much for giving me some hope tho it truly means alot to me x



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Old Dec 27th, 2011, 02:38 AM   37
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Wow that is high hcg!!which is great!!thursday will be here soon and i ll be thinking n keeping my fxed fir you and bubs!tomorrow us my appointment so i ll update then!keep your faith hun,your bub is swimming around!!



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2011, 02:03 AM   38
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hey not sure what time it is over there but wondered if you had been to your app??
hopefully got good news xx



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2011, 02:31 AM   39
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Hey,it s 930 here and my appointment is at 5 so no,not yet...but thanks for asking!!! how are you today hun?



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2011, 04:24 AM   40
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I'm doing ok had a funeral to go to so that dampened that day and trying to be positive for tomorrow morning for my scan but nasty little thoughts keep creeping in :/



 
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