Hi, My name is Kate and I am 23. By fiance and I are TTC and are having some trouble. We have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. When we first got together, we had a BFP 5 weeks into our relationship. I told my family and they convinced me that a termination was the best option at the time. I agreed and had the termination at 13 weeks in Jan 2010. I was young (20) and thought it was best and would be easy to conceive again. I went on NuvaRing and by April I had another BFP. It seemed different this time though (no M/S or sensitivity to smell) but I thought it was ok because not every pregnancy is the same. Come to find out, I had a molar pregnancy and had to have an emergency D&C in May 2010. I wanted to take a break from TTC and give my body a chance to get back to normal. I talked to my gyno about it and he suggested Depo because I don't remember to take a pill everyday, NuvaRing didn't work and I heard bad things about the patch. Well, long story short, I had 2 shots of depo and had a horrible experience. My last shot was up in Nov 2010. I had gained 65 lbs and have since worked almost all of it off. Since then, it took 10 months to get my period back. I have never been regular but every since my first pregnancy it had been every month or every other, so 10 months was not normal at all. Ever since, we have been TTC and having BD as much as possible. I think I put so much thought into and stessing over it so much that we haven't been able to get anything but a BFN. Since Jan 2012, we have been having BD about twice a week, but I would really like to conceive soon. I'm not stressing about it as much as before, but I would love to get a BFP. I was so happy the first time I got a BFP and the feeling of having a LO growing inside me. I would give anything or try anything to have that again. We both love kids and would love to have some together. He already has a son from a previous marriage (11 yo) and would love to have more. I am just scared that my worse fears have come true and something went wrong with the 2 procedures and I'm not able to conceive. I already regret my decision with the first BFP. I will always regret it and would give anything to go back and change my decision, but I can't. If anyone has any techniques or things they have done, I am open to trying anything.
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