Hi, I'm glad I found this group! I'm four months in to trying to conceive with my husband... it is very hard, I had no idea how emotionally taxing it would be! I am constantly testing ( a BIG addiction for me, even before we were formally trying). My husband has such a different attitude about it... he just says "if it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, that's okay too...". I try not to put toooo much of my roller-coaster-y emotions on him, but it does make it hard that he has such a different attitude. I admit that it makes me feel like a bit of a crazy person.

Right now I'm in that difficult difficult time, I really know that I'm about to get my period, but I'm HOPING just MAYBE it won't come this time!!! Meanwhile it will probably come in about an hour or so, and I'll be crushed. My breasts have been very sore for a few days, but it would be too early for that to be a pregnancy symptom I suppose. Also I have that heaviness in the belly that usually comes before my period, and the tiredness, just all the symptoms of impending doom, i.e. a period when TTC. Eesh.

oh, me. Any responses/shared stories would be welcome. Thanks so much.

Hi and welcome. I want to wish you luck with your TTC journey and hope you get a BFP really soon - in the meantime you can offload your feelings etc in here. THere's a TTC section where all the girls are on the same journey as you so will be more understanding xxx

Welcome to BnB x x

Thanks you guys! I feel better already. So nice to have people who understand!!! I have 2 friends who are 3 months along in their pregnancies, but none that are trying, but no one who I really feel comfortable being honest with about this. Yay to both of your beautiful kiddos and WinterKage, congratulations for your little bean!

Aww thanks hun For me with my 2nd it took quite a few months to conceive so now how you feel x x I hope your period doesn't arrive and that you get a nice positive pregnancy test instead x Good luck hun x x

Welcome!

V xxx

Hi!

and welcome to bnb!