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Old May 2nd, 2017, 17:14 PM   51
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I'm really very shocked by this. What would the teacher have done if the student had on extremely revealing underwear?
Hopefully it wouldn't of happened if that was the case!



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Old May 2nd, 2017, 17:16 PM   52
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A teacher made a 14 year old strip to her knickers in front of the class???
She didn't 'strip' in front of the class. She undressed in the changing room



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A teacher made a 14 year old strip to her knickers in front of the class???
She didn't 'strip' in front of the class. She undressed in the changing room
Regardless of where she got undressed she ended up in her knickers in front of the class?
This really isn't OK and honestly you need to stand up for her.
You need to show her now that someone with authority does not get to choose for her to be in her underwear.
She may be OK with it, she may not be, you don't always know with 14 year olds. But what if in the future it's her boyfriends dad or her boss making the request? You need to teach her that she is not obliged, that it is her choice to make and most importantly that people should NOT be asking that from her.

Sorry I know you think that people are overreacting but imagine an adult being made to work in her underwear because she forgot her uniform. If it's not OK for us it's not OK for our kids.



 
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Old May 3rd, 2017, 05:24 AM   54
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wow. being made to wear just underwear is out of order imo. if that was my daughter i would have a few choice words for the teachers! just because you think it is 'ok' and that she will have learnt her lesson doesnt make it right!!
when i was at school and there was no spare kit you took off your tie blazer etc and just did pe in your school clothes that you had on. detentions if you carried on doing it every week etc.

edited to add, a lot of girls at my school began to wear 'sexy' underwear at that age too, such as thongs. what would the teacher have done if your daughter was wearing thongs and she had asked her to take her clothes off. would she have still made her take part with her bum showing to all other other pupils? if it was a male teacher making her do this would you see it differently? what if someone had a phone and took a picture and put it on social media to humiliate her further? these are the things id be asking.



 
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Old May 3rd, 2017, 05:31 AM   55
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Omg this is awful. She should not be in her underwear in school! I would have a few choicewords if my 3 year old son was in his underwear at nursery let alone a 14 year old girl!! Im sure some girls were wearing thongs at that age in my school and some were even having sex. Nothing more degrading than being told to strip down to your underwear infront of classmates im seriously shocked. I dont think this is ok and i dont think your daughter should be made to feel like this is ok!



 
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A teacher made a 14 year old strip to her knickers in front of the class???
She didn't 'strip' in front of the class. She undressed in the changing room
Regardless of where she got undressed she ended up in her knickers in front of the class?
This really isn't OK and honestly you need to stand up for her.
You need to show her now that someone with authority does not get to choose for her to be in her underwear.
She may be OK with it, she may not be, you don't always know with 14 year olds. But what if in the future it's her boyfriends dad or her boss making the request? You need to teach her that she is not obliged, that it is her choice to make and most importantly that people should NOT be asking that from her.

Sorry I know you think that people are overreacting but imagine an adult being made to work in her underwear because she forgot her uniform. If it's not OK for us it's not OK for our kids.
This is a really good point.



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aside from the other issue

have you spoken to staff about her attitude to PE? are there strategies in place to encourage serial non pe likers?? - she cant be the only one?



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aside from the other issue

have you spoken to staff about her attitude to PE? are there strategies in place to encourage serial non pe likers?? - she cant be the only one?
There are a couple of other non PE likers, but she's only got until the end of this year and she's obviously not taking PE as an option, so I think we'll just let it slide.



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aside from the other issue

have you spoken to staff about her attitude to PE? are there strategies in place to encourage serial non pe likers?? - she cant be the only one?
There are a couple of other non PE likers, but she's only got until the end of this year and she's obviously not taking PE as an option, so I think we'll just let it slide.
im sure if she doesn't pick it as an option they still have to do pe but not as much
that's the schools policy that my children go to I think they have to have so much physical time a week
I would still mention it to the school its wrong on so many levels I would say its bullying and humiliating if we as parents don't say something these things just carry on and on to other children you could even write an letter or something along those lines



 
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I think its a bit overdramatic calling it a safeguarding issue! I'll just try and persuade her to make sure she takes her kit in future.
I work in safeguarding and it would be taken very seriously. It's actually classed as a form of abuse as its humiliation.



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