well yesterday i found out my 13 year old niece is dating and activly having sex with a 19 (nearly 20) year old boy, and her mum, my brothers ex, has allowed her to get the implant. I cant make my mind up as o wether this is right or not.
on one hand its protecing her against unwanted pregancy but on the other hand its saying 'its ok zoe you can have sex when ever you please now cause you wont get preganat'
i think im just super confused, what do you think?
yes, but when my sister and brother said this to the male this is the reply they recieved from her over face book
sam, i know your family, but im sorry for this, but tbh i hate you. you have no fucking right to message my boyfriend, Just keave me and him alone, if im happy you should be happy, NEVER fucking talk to me again, and you've lost me as a niece now. hope yah glad. YOUR A SELFISH DICK! THAT GOES TO JAMES TOO, and whoever ...wants to fucking call him or threaten him!!!. if you fucking talk to him again i swear. i will do horrible things.
yes it is illegal but as you can see she has an attitude problem and also has inherited the familys mental problems (she has a girl named emily who tells her to 'cut deeper') so we have to 'tiptoe' around her as such.
I do wonder why she's sexually active at 13 but bar keeping her in the house 24/7 I don't think there's anything they can do but protect her now.. she's gonna do it regardless. With regards to the boyfriend, i'd report him to the police.
I personally don't think it is right but if she is sexually active what can you do really. Last thing she would need just now is pregnancy and a baby. I have a 14 year old boy and would hate to think he might get someone pregnant at this stage, he's not old enough himself.
Your niece seeing someone that age - would he not be placed on the sex offenders register if there was a complaint about it? It seems like quite a big age gap considering she is only 13.
Eurgh, whats the 20 year old thinking?! I look at a 13 year old and just see a kid. I don't agree with giving such a young girl an implant full of hormones either Suppose thats beside the point anyway as she shouldnt be having sex at all. Oh well, she'll learn when he dumps her.
well shes one of these where she as a boyfriend on the monday loves him by the wednesday a week later its over.... but this one has been on the scene about 3 weeks now ?(this is long for her) i just dont know how my brother alows it! and im not reporting it as i will loose family over it and she will only go and find someother bloke...
she is also very old for her age, she is about 5'7 or 8 and has a curvy 12/14 (?) grown womans body she could probly pass as 17/18 which dosent go in her favour either
i just dont know what to do, do i just leave her to it or try and be her friend and talk some sence into it
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