Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

[Beauts]

Hey everyone!!
Back from my break, although it wasn't much of a break...still just as gutted to see that BFN. DH and I did some talking and decided we would like to investigate IVF....it was a tough one but we decided we want to do everything we can. I am terrified if it doesn't work I will be broken...it will be about 20 thousand by the time all is said and done and time off work for both of us as they do don't it where we live so there is traveling involved. I can't believe it has come to this....
next re app is June 1 so I will ask for the referral out of town.
Waiting for brief updates on everyone...what happened this month while I was gone?
LEE did see your more recent posts...I am so sorry hun. Going through this month after month is so hard...big, big hugs.

[sara1]

Hi Angel, I'm sorry for your losses and that you find yourself here. It can be a very very difficult journey and I hope that you get the support and answers that you need. Have you had any testing done yet? Even though you have carried one child to term, with as many losses as you've had there may be an underlying problem, other than PCOS. They don't always find anything, but some of the things they do find- like clotting or thyroid issues, can be controlled with meds (I know, I have both).
Talk to your Dr, or fertility specialist about the diet thing, but it seems highly unlikely. I know that a low GI diet can help some women with pcos conceive... I think this has to do with insulin production and egg quality, but in all the research and testing I've done there has never been any mention of a diet like that (or lack there of) contributing to miscarriage. It's really very important that you DO NOT blame yourself for what's happening!

[sara1]

Welcome back Beauts!

[Mrskg]

everyone x

lee my heart is breaking for you but i like amos's idea of a sneaky month x i also agree it takes a pretty brave lady to take a break x

amos so glad af finally showed face for you well, id rather she had stayed away for 9 months but ykwim xxx

Mrs mig how you getting on? xxx

sara one more sleep xxx


fili hows you have you done anymore tests? xxx

beauts im sorry its come to that too big hugs xxx

annmarie im not sure if ive missed posts from you hows things your end? xxx

debzie hows you? are you jumping back on the ttc train? xxx

sorry to see some newbies here but welcome xxx

sorry if i missed anyone xxx

afm...pissed off big time! im on cd16/25 i feel sick nipples killing me (not usual) cold sore in my nose restless sleeping bad dreams weepy moody tired!!!!! normally id be like woohoo but i just feel my body is playing big tricks on me!!! this time last yr when i fell with my first mc i had symptoms a week before bfp so i know its not impossible but im so scared to get my hopes up x an then if im not why do i have these symptoms feel like i cant trust anything just now! can tell this is gonna be a long week x sorry ladies rant over xxx

[debzie]

Welcome angel and so sorry for your losses. I agree we all rack our brains and blame ourselves for the loss but that is usually not the case. It's part of the grieving process.

Mrskg still undecided what to do. Oh wants to wait and see what comes from the tests even though I have explained that could months away and even then there is no guarantee if answers. I could be pg with a healthy baby by then. Plus it takes us a Faye few cycles to conceive. I don't know how not to ttc unless I'm pregnant if you know whst I mean its been almost 2 years now since we started trying. I'm still spotting although its now just tinged brown cm. Hpts are still dark but fading I feel how i did at 5 weeks pregnant so I'm hoping another week and the hcg will be out if my system. I too had symptoms really early last bfp. I really hope its not your body plying tricks. Hugs. X

[Mrs Miggins]

Beauts good to see you back. That's a big decision to take but I sincerely hope it works for you.
Hi Sara!
Mrs Kg I totally sympathise. I don't know if it's since my daughter or since my losses but I get far worse symptoms pre AF than I ever did before. I never used to get sore boobs, now they throb. I also have started to get pregnancy like symptoms on around cd7 as well which is totally bizarre. It's like our bodies are taunting us.

[Mrskg]

thanks debzie tottally get you x i sometimes think itd be easier just to throw in the towel god im such a grumpy face today!! got counselling in a wee while so ill have an hour of moaning there lol xxx

[Mrs Miggins]

Hope the counselling helps. Ive been thinking about throwing in the towel as well. Each AF gets harder to take, and some months hits you like a train.

[Mrskg]

yeah mrs mig i def think my body taunting me x the only sign im confident of is the sore nipples its not something i usually get lol cant stop prodding them im prob making them worse x feeling really nauseated if its for a bfp then great but if not then blaaaaah!!!!

[Mrskg]

no sure the counselling helping dont even feel like i need it but suppose its good i can get everything of my chest without boring everyone irl xxx