Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

to everyone. Sorry you have had to join Moonmama. You will get lots of support on here xx

Waheyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy got my referral date through today 25th November (next week) am so happy its come so quick xx

Hey moonmama, sorry for your losses as well and you are in great company.
I'm going to meet with a new dr. who deals with immunological and reproductive health, so we will see what that turns up, and I'll keep you guys posted on the tests they do.

Hi moonmama, the ladies on here are fab, I find it really helpful. Sorry you've had to join us though.

Fluffyblue - good news about your referral coming through.

Widger - so glad things are going well for you, keep us posted when you have your next scan! Are you going to find out the sex of the baby?

Peach Blossom - with respect to the study in the link, couldn't find any information about the study methodology, size of sample etc.

As for me, we are going to TTC straight away after my chemical last week, not feeling too bad actually. I had hoped to be pregnant again before the estimated-due-date for my third miscarriage, which was new year's eve. Silly really, dates don't matter. Since that one I have deliberately not worked out the due date, as it becomes an unhappy milestone.

Originally Posted by fluffyblue

Waheyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy got my referral date through today 25th November (next week) am so happy its come so quick xx

So glad fluffyblue. That is such a fast referral date. About time they got their act together xx

BKLove - Good luck with new docs xx

Smiler13 - I so desperately wanted to be pregnant in August and had convinced myself I was for that same 'milestone' reason. It didn't happen and I was so upset. I felt so cross with myself for even thinking about it but it is totally natural. Good luck with TTC

Originally Posted by moonmama

hi: Hi all

I had my third mmc on Sunday I had my first in sept 08 resulting in an erpc, then the next one in feb 09 resulting in 2 erpcs because I got an infection following retained products and this time I opted for medical management to avoid an erpc but it went horribly wrong and I lost a horrendous amount of blood, collapsed and had an erpc anyway. Feel thoroughly low and anaemic! Dont know where to go from here- dont know if I can cope with any more- so glad I found this thread- thought I was the only one.

Would love to know how people have the strength to carry on xxxx

Ah moonmama so sorry you've had to join us
I've had 3 ERPC's too - all mmc no real bleeding or anything so I can kinda relate to what you're going through (even had incomplete erpc and infection with 2nd like you!!). We got our testing done and it took 3 mths for results but I'm still leaving it to new yr to ttc.....I'm dreading it to be honest but it does get a bit better as this time 3 mths ago I was saying I don't know if I can do this again but we seem to get the strength from somewhere.....xx

Originally Posted by fluffyblue

Waheyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy got my referral date through today 25th November (next week) am so happy its come so quick xx

Good luck at your apt fluffyblue hope you get some answers

Originally Posted by bklove

Hey moonmama, sorry for your losses as well and you are in great company.
I'm going to meet with a new dr. who deals with immunological and reproductive health, so we will see what that turns up, and I'll keep you guys posted on the tests they do.

good luck at your apt bklove xx

Thanks to all your warm welcomes, thats so lovely

Brilliant you got date fluffyblue- you will have to let us know how you get on!

Thanks AS1- 3 months sounds like such a long time to wait for answers, what were results? did they find anything significant? At the moment I'm still thinking that I cant go through it again. We're going up for tests on 22nd Dec so maybe take one step at a time depending on what if anything comes up.

right now i feel 'stuck' i cant bare thought of ttc and mc again- but i've been trying for so long there will be a void in my life if i give it up (if that makes sense!)

xxx

Originally Posted by moonmama

Thanks to all your warm welcomes, thats so lovely

Brilliant you got date fluffyblue- you will have to let us know how you get on!

Thanks AS1- 3 months sounds like such a long time to wait for answers, what were results? did they find anything significant? At the moment I'm still thinking that I cant go through it again. We're going up for tests on 22nd Dec so maybe take one step at a time depending on what if anything comes up.

right now i feel 'stuck' i cant bare thought of ttc and mc again- but i've been trying for so long there will be a void in my life if i give it up (if that makes sense!)

xxx

Hi hunny so sorry you are here again. Taking a break is not as hard as it seems - i feel kinda excited knowing I have to wait weird I know but ive set it as like a little treat to myself - if im patient I can try again and i cant wait for Feb but can wait if you get me.

I know its sooooooooooooooooo hard but enjoy christmas and new year - get drunk, have lots of sex (not baby making sex) relax and then start over in New Year you will feel much more relaxed I promise you.

Try and relax and take it easy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx