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Old Jan 23rd, 2013, 11:00 AM   541
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I've added you in my signature now sweetmomma with a flashing BFP, yaaaayyy! Hope that's okay!
Me too.
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Old Jan 23rd, 2013, 11:08 AM   542
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jennc,

I think that’s a great idea for you to see a therapist. I have heard the stats that people who work in the mental health field, need help themselves, because they spend all their time dealing with other people's problems. That's a big burden!

Omg you totally made me lol when you said “The cure for it was "the big O" which my husband apparently picked up on somewhere in his life because when I'm upset, he wants to do it. Not exactly the first thing on my mind, but I usually humor him and at least make him think that made me feel better”. That’s me too-- I do the same thing and try to humor him!!



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Old Jan 23rd, 2013, 21:45 PM   543
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Jenk, hope the provera works like last time!

Jenn, psychiatric nursing sound like a very fulfilling career! And I am sure it would be hard to leave the kids you got so close to!

Meli, 10dpo is still early. FX!

When I found out I was pregnant, we cleaned out a drawer of the dresser to put all my pregnancy related stuff (journal, birth books, etc). After the miscarriage, I put away everything from sight in there, like the ultrasound pic. I haven't really went through it yet, I just haven't felt ready. I plan to get a box, I guess not having the box is holding me back from going through it. I was just thinking that I need to get it soon, so that when I get pregnant again it doesn't seem like the new pregnancy is "wiping out " the old one. Like taking out everything to replace it with new stuff. This has been weighing on my mind.



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Old Jan 24th, 2013, 18:24 PM   544
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Angel: Isn't it amazing how the little things can weigh on us? A week or so after the MC, I placed the ultrasound photo with some other photos and then I threw out everything my dr had given me that related to pregnancy. On the other hand I realized I still have the baby name book in my nightstand. I guess I keep it there in hopes that I will need to use it one day, but I've moved the things directly related to my angel. Hope you will be able to face all of your baby items soon.

Sweetmomma: Please stay with us! We love having your here. Part of me thinks we should move this thread to another area. Although we will never forget our angels, I think most of us are ready to move on to the next step.

Jasmine: Any word on the house or have you had a chance to look at anything new?

Jenk: Good luck on the Provera. I think you will be OK as you don't use it all that often. It really helped me the time I took it. Sometimes our bodies just need to be told what to do.

Jenn: We must have been posting at the same time the other day. My DH doesn't really understand my need to be on BnB, and I've been on here for years! He finally realized that it does have value during this whole MC ordeal. I also primarily post while he is at work, so he has no idea how much time I'm on here.

Meli: I'm glad you had a chance to think about adoption. It appears as though you have had some amazing children in your life. I truly do hope you get one of your own too as you seem too be so loving and totally prepared. I would like to have one more just because I really believe my daughter needs a sibling and since neither of us were only children we would just like more than one child. I'm not a huge fan of adoption, but if we don't have another baby in let's say two years, I think we will go for it. Also, and this is unrelated, but I don't live that close to work. The training was close by, but my real job is about ten miles away (still much closer than you are to work!).

Stef: What have you been up to?

AFM: Work has been great. The people I work with are so nice and laid back. They made me a huge welcome sign for my new office (well, cubicle, but I do have a window). I think I am really going to enjoy working again and I believe this job is the perfect fit. Charlotte seems to be enjoying daycare and even cried the first two days when I went to pick her up as she wanted to stay. I'm also grateful for the job as it is taking my mind off all the baby stuff. I just feel very content right now, and I haven't felt this way since before the mc.



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Old Jan 25th, 2013, 00:26 AM   545
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How are you ladies going? I have having either beginning on af (due next week) or ib.



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Old Jan 25th, 2013, 08:55 AM   546
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Vegas, thank you. I think once I have a box it will feel better because it will all be going someplace special and someplace I can pull it out to remember any time I want.

Megan, FX for you!!! Keep us updated!!

Stef, where you at??

Meli, don't cave today!!!



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Old Jan 25th, 2013, 11:06 AM   547
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Just checkin in on you ladies. How are you all?



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Old Jan 25th, 2013, 12:45 PM   548
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Angel,

I can understand why you’d feel that taking out everything to replace with new stuff would be like ‘wiping out’ the pregnancy with your angel. Hopefully you can find the strength to do this soon, because FX that you get pg again very very quickly!!

I didn’t cave today lol! But thanks for keeping me in check! Today I am 12dpo and my temps have fallen steadily for the last 2 days. Temping has kept me from torturing myself (poas) for the last 2 days. AF should be here Sunday. Oh well..the only consolation is that I seem to be back on a textbook 28 day cycle…

Vegas,

I was thinking the same thing! I agree with you that we should move this thread to another area. I just don’t know who can do that/how we go about doing that??

Thanks for your kind words! You’re so sweet. I totally want to have a child of my own but I just try to look at the blessings that I do have, and to be grateful for them. I agree that Charlotte needs a baby brother or sister! I’m sure she would love that.

I’m so glad that your work family has welcomed, and are so nice to you. Hey, a cubicle with a window rocks!! I have an office, but it doesn't have a a window. To see what the weather’s like outside, I need to actually go outside lol! I think I’d prefer your cubicle with a window, tbh.

That's great that Charlotte likes her daycare. I’m sure that makes you feel better when you drop her off in the mornings.

I’m so happy that you’re feeling content and not obsessed with this baby business. It warms my heart.

Jasmine,

Where are you???We miss you! Hope you’ve been busy moving into the place that you submitted the application for (or that you’ve found another place that you love)!

Megan,

FX that you’re experiencing IB!!! GL!

Phantom,

We’re all just trying to keep it together, I suppose, maybe I should just speak for myself and say, “I’m just trying to keep it together” lol! How are you?

AFM,

As I feared, it's rained the last 2 days, and it's supposed to keep raining for the next 3 days. MY FRONT YARD IS A HUGE MUD PIT! I've had to wear shoes to work that I hate, because they get trashed by mud! I hate coordinating clothes with shoes that I don't like anymore lol! Then I have to maneuver into my car without getting mud all over the carpet-DH would just love that...not! I so much hate to drive his car, he treats it like his baby, god forbid anything happens to that car!

During this tww, and last month’s tww, I prayed a lot and asked God what to do about this whole liver transplant thing for my uncle. I put it all in his hands, and prayed that if I was meant to be a liver donor, then I would not get pregnant, conversely, if I did get pregnant, it obviously was not meant to be for me to donate to him.

I believe my uncle has a dr.’s appt. early next week. He will be told then whether or not he has been accepted as a candidate for the procedure. If he IS accepted, then the next step is for possible donors to fill out extensive medical history paperwork and have complete medical work-ups and evaluations.

I feel like the timing right now is perfect. I now know I am not pg, and I can stop ttc and throw my hat in the ring. I am really nervous because that means that I have to have this conversation again with DH…and I am so not looking forward to it. I guess I won’t broach the subject this weekend, because I still don’t even know whether or not my uncle has been accepted as a candidate. BUT, if he is accepted as a candidate, I definitely need to have this discussion early next week with DH. I can’t avoid it or put it off because next weekend, we are going to the mountains for the weekend with my extended family. It’s an annual family tradition. About 30-40 of us rent a huge mountain home and hang out for the weekend. I just know that this whole liver thing will be a hot topic of conversation….I really wish that I could go through the whole medical evaluation testing process without even letting DH know, because I may not even be selected as a viable candidate to donate. There are more things that they look at (besides being the same blood type as the recipient), they have to do more extensive tissue typing tests, etc). I’d totally hate to have all these issues with DH for nothing (if I’m rejected as a suitable donor). I am feeling somewhat down, but need to try to have a good weekend with him (I’ve been pms’ing the past few days and have not been in the nicest mood). I need to do some MAJOR butt kissing this weekend and DTD a few times before af comes….sigh…I HATE kissing butt….but at least I can have some wine, right??

I hope everyone has a great weekend!!



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Old Jan 25th, 2013, 12:50 PM   549
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I am well. Been thinking of you all lately

We (the parents and I) have transferred again, and are cautiously pregnant, although all the numbers and signs are much better than their Poor June Baby.



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Old Jan 25th, 2013, 13:14 PM   550
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I am well. Been thinking of you all lately

We (the parents and I) have transferred again, and are cautiously pregnant, although all the numbers and signs are much better than their Poor June Baby.
CONGRATULATIONS!! What's the EDD?



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