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Old Nov 18th, 2012, 22:40 PM   51
sweetmommaof2
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Oh Sweet hun - FX its just a mistake

WARNING - TMI and UPSETTING POST -




Well its done now - and it was the most awful experience of my life - It was fine, uncomfortable but fine right up until the nurse for reasons I CANNOT fathom showed me - totally unasked and definately unwanted - my dead baby in a jar!


Thats now an image that will stay will me forever and I wasnt quick enough to not see it. And, I know not everyone feels like this but I do VERY strongly, under NO circumstances can I ever imagine wanting to see that - And now I cant see anything else.

It certainly broke down my barriers - cos Im certainly feeling something now - mainly murderous towards that nurse.

I WILL be making a complaint

Mizze x
I am so sorry sweetie! That was not very nice of them... Lots of wish I was able to be there to help you. Get some rest and remember to try to relax. xx



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Old Nov 19th, 2012, 01:56 AM   52
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Massive thank yous and huge for us all

I am struggling a bit to be honest I keep seeing the image over and over and over. I will definately be making a strongly worded complaint as I do not want ANY woman to have that done to her. Its made this whole experience a 1000 times worse.

Mizze xxx xxx



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Old Nov 19th, 2012, 04:38 AM   53
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Defo make a complaint hun, disgusting and insensitive behaviour. Is go so far as to try and get some counselling on the NHS for that to!!!!



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Old Nov 19th, 2012, 12:11 PM   54
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I'm afraid my baby might have died 2 nights ago. After sex I noticed my uterus feeling really tense and sorelike I had been doin situps I tried to shake the feeling but For the rest of the night it seemed like something just wasn't right. I felt like I was having contractions and chills kept shotting thru my body for the rest of the night, I couldn't even sleep. Ever since that night I've ben feeling a disconnect, like I might not be pregnant anymore. I just really have a bad feeling. My next apt is not till next Wed. I dnt want to have to wait that long to find out. I just need to hear a heartbeat or something.



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Old Nov 19th, 2012, 12:41 PM   55
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I'm sorry I did not mean to post here. But has any of you recall a similar ecperience with a miscarriage



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Old Nov 19th, 2012, 12:44 PM   56
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I'm afraid my baby might have died 2 nights ago. After sex I noticed my uterus feeling really tense and sorelike I had been doin situps I tried to shake the feeling but For the rest of the night it seemed like something just wasn't right. I felt like I was having contractions and chills kept shotting thru my body for the rest of the night, I couldn't even sleep. Ever since that night I've ben feeling a disconnect, like I might not be pregnant anymore. I just really have a bad feeling. My next apt is not till next Wed. I dnt want to have to wait that long to find out. I just need to hear a heartbeat or something.



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Old Nov 19th, 2012, 14:36 PM   57
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Hey tmomma

It's not unusual for things to feel strange downstairs after sex. How are ur symptoms, are they still strong?



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Old Nov 19th, 2012, 22:25 PM   58
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Some how I accidentally deleted my subscription on this thread... Hopefully reposting on here will get it to come back up...
It is normal to have contractions after sex.... If your worried take it easy for a few days... It is even normal to spot if it was a little rough... Hope everything is ok and try to stay positive...

Mizze- I am so sorry they did that to you!!! Still can't believe you had to go through that... They had me do it at home... I got lucky and it came out (sorry tmi) in my pad and not the toilet so we wrapped it in a paper towel, put that into a ziplock bag and got a plant and buried it outside.... Couldn't flush it or just throw it away... It is my baby and can't afford to get anything from the cemetaries... Also the baby passed away at the 5 week mark even though I passed it at the 8 week mark....

Hugs and prayers for all and happy thanksgiving if I don't get back on by Thursday



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Old Nov 20th, 2012, 06:48 AM   59
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Just had my flu jab that i booked because i was pregnant.fingers crossed i'll need it soon.



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Old Nov 21st, 2012, 06:59 AM   60
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Was due June 15th but had a m/c 4 weeks ago at 7 weeks just got af today and it's way worse than usual, but hopefully means by body is getting back to normal



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