June Baby Angels

sweetmommaof2 · Nov 10th, 2012, 17:54 PM

My due date was June 17th. I found out November 1st I lost the baby at the 5 week mark (I had a missed miscarriage). It is hard in itself to have lost the baby and now I found out two of my really close friends that are due june 27th and 30th... Doctor said after I get my HCG levels checked on the 14th, if they are down to normal levels I can start trying agian... I am scared to... Is this normal? Anyone else going through this???

Mandy04 · Nov 10th, 2012, 20:03 PM

My due date would of been June 14, 2013. I was around 12wks and found out yesterday baby stopped at 8wks and 3days with no cardiac activity identified. It's upseting. I have 4 babies never had a mc and wondering y I could'nt carry this one. I am so sorry for your loss. I really ha e no advice this being my first mc. Have you passed anything as of yet? Or are on the waiting game?

sweetmommaof2 · Nov 10th, 2012, 22:21 PM

I choose to take the pill... my doctor gave me 3 options. 1. D&C but adviced not to because of my fears of surgery, knives, needles, etc. 2. Wait it out and let my body naturally do it... she said this would be best but also adviced not to because my body was doing everything in its power to hold it in and it could take up to a month and she also worried about my mental health. 3. Take the pills to medically speed up the process... she told me the pros and cons but I decided to go with this one. Started them on the 2nd and passed the baby at 10pm on sunday the 4th. I am sorry for your loss. It is hard. I have 2 girls already and don't understand how this happened either. I am thinking it was because during the 5th week the heart is forming and maybe it just didn't form correct...

angel2010 · Nov 10th, 2012, 22:29 PM

I was due on June 11th. My baby stopped growing at 8+3, I just found out this past wed. I passed the baby last night and the pain was awful. My doctor would like us to wait two cycles before ttc again and I am okay with that. My dh finishes getting his masts in Aug and we have to many bdays in Sept. So an October baby would be great. I feel much better emotionally now that it is over.

sweetmommaof2 · Nov 11th, 2012, 00:08 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. My doctor prescribed ibuprofen 600mg and hydrocodone-acetaminophen 5-500 to help with the pain. I found out at 7 weeks 4 days... and lost the baby they said in the beginning of the 5th week.... I thought we were suppose to wait after having a miscarriage and found it kind of shocking that if my hcg levels were fine on the 14th that we could start trying right away again... I thought it was at least 2 mo. like your dr. said... congrats to your hubby on his masters, and I know what you mean by a lot of bdays in a month lol... my family is like that with feb. and beginning of march... 8 bdays! Good luck and keep me posted on whats all going on

nessaw · Nov 11th, 2012, 01:40 AM

hi my baby was due 7th june.am miscarrying at the moment.we had a 9 wk scan that showed a 5 wk sac.went back on fri to confirm and took first pill then going back in today for the remaining pills.the nurse said to me to wait until first period then u know everything is def out but a lot of what i've read is this is for dating.it took us 20 months to get our bfp so dont want to wait.am thinking ntnp when the bleeding stops and then get going with the opks next month.sorry for ur losses and best of luck to all of us.x

Mandy04 · Nov 11th, 2012, 07:06 AM

Does anyone know what their hcg levels were when they found out they loss?? I'm just curious sorry if I'm being nosey. Mine was 1,207 I was 12wks..we all know that's too low..but baby died at 8+3...and to me that's still to low. Would my hcg levels go back down even though I have not passed the baby yet?

angel2010 · Nov 11th, 2012, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by sweetmommaof2

congrats to your hubby on his masters, and I know what you mean by a lot of bdays in a month lol... my family is like that with feb. and beginning of march... 8 bdays! Good luck and keep me posted on whats all going on

Thanks. I am glad you could understand what I wrote. Was on the Vicodin when I wrote it and it really makes me feel drunk.

I am not sure of my levels on Wed when I found out, but they did take some blood on the Monday before. I am not sure if they tested hcg, but I know at that point my progesterone was already 7.4. When I go back to the dr I am going to ask if they did an hcg test.

Mandy04 · Nov 11th, 2012, 14:13 PM

Yea! I think that's good to get it tested. Make sire its going down. Or you could keep taking hpt till they come back bfn

amjon · Nov 11th, 2012, 15:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Mandy04

Does anyone know what their hcg levels were when they found out they loss?? I'm just curious sorry if I'm being nosey. Mine was 1,207 I was 12wks..we all know that's too low..but baby died at 8+3...and to me that's still to low. Would my hcg levels go back down even though I have not passed the baby yet?

Mine were 22,000 and took 6 weeks to drop below 5. I was 9 weeks; baby stopped growing at 6.

Nov 10th, 2012, 17:54 PM	#1
sweetmommaof2 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Washington Posts: 121	June Baby Angels My due date was June 17th. I found out November 1st I lost the baby at the 5 week mark (I had a missed miscarriage). It is hard in itself to have lost the baby and now I found out two of my really close friends that are due june 27th and 30th... Doctor said after I get my HCG levels checked on the 14th, if they are down to normal levels I can start trying agian... I am scared to... Is this normal? Anyone else going through this???

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Nov 10th, 2012, 20:03 PM	#2
Mandy04 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Tampa, Florida Posts: 122	My due date would of been June 14, 2013. I was around 12wks and found out yesterday baby stopped at 8wks and 3days with no cardiac activity identified. It's upseting. I have 4 babies never had a mc and wondering y I could'nt carry this one. I am so sorry for your loss. I really ha e no advice this being my first mc. Have you passed anything as of yet? Or are on the waiting game?

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Nov 10th, 2012, 22:21 PM	#3
sweetmommaof2 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Washington Posts: 121	I choose to take the pill... my doctor gave me 3 options. 1. D&C but adviced not to because of my fears of surgery, knives, needles, etc. 2. Wait it out and let my body naturally do it... she said this would be best but also adviced not to because my body was doing everything in its power to hold it in and it could take up to a month and she also worried about my mental health. 3. Take the pills to medically speed up the process... she told me the pros and cons but I decided to go with this one. Started them on the 2nd and passed the baby at 10pm on sunday the 4th. I am sorry for your loss. It is hard. I have 2 girls already and don't understand how this happened either. I am thinking it was because during the 5th week the heart is forming and maybe it just didn't form correct...

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Nov 10th, 2012, 22:29 PM	#4
angel2010 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 14,767	I was due on June 11th. My baby stopped growing at 8+3, I just found out this past wed. I passed the baby last night and the pain was awful. My doctor would like us to wait two cycles before ttc again and I am okay with that. My dh finishes getting his masts in Aug and we have to many bdays in Sept. So an October baby would be great. I feel much better emotionally now that it is over.

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Nov 11th, 2012, 00:08 AM	#5
sweetmommaof2 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Washington Posts: 121	I am so sorry for your loss. My doctor prescribed ibuprofen 600mg and hydrocodone-acetaminophen 5-500 to help with the pain. I found out at 7 weeks 4 days... and lost the baby they said in the beginning of the 5th week.... I thought we were suppose to wait after having a miscarriage and found it kind of shocking that if my hcg levels were fine on the 14th that we could start trying right away again... I thought it was at least 2 mo. like your dr. said... congrats to your hubby on his masters, and I know what you mean by a lot of bdays in a month lol... my family is like that with feb. and beginning of march... 8 bdays! Good luck and keep me posted on whats all going on

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Nov 11th, 2012, 01:40 AM	#6
nessaw Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: Herts, UK Posts: 794	hi my baby was due 7th june.am miscarrying at the moment.we had a 9 wk scan that showed a 5 wk sac.went back on fri to confirm and took first pill then going back in today for the remaining pills.the nurse said to me to wait until first period then u know everything is def out but a lot of what i've read is this is for dating.it took us 20 months to get our bfp so dont want to wait.am thinking ntnp when the bleeding stops and then get going with the opks next month.sorry for ur losses and best of luck to all of us.x

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Nov 11th, 2012, 07:06 AM	#7
Mandy04 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Tampa, Florida Posts: 122	Does anyone know what their hcg levels were when they found out they loss?? I'm just curious sorry if I'm being nosey. Mine was 1,207 I was 12wks..we all know that's too low..but baby died at 8+3...and to me that's still to low. Would my hcg levels go back down even though I have not passed the baby yet?

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Nov 11th, 2012, 14:13 PM	#9
Mandy04 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Tampa, Florida Posts: 122	Yea! I think that's good to get it tested. Make sire its going down. Or you could keep taking hpt till they come back bfn

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