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Old Jan 15th, 2013, 05:18 AM   1
stanaldo1
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8weeks 3days pregnant told heartbeat stopped waiting to miscarry


Hi every one i am so sad today and just need support i had scan and was told yday that the heartbeat has prob just stopped beating, i even have a scan picture me and husband are heartbroken i have been sent home and am waiting to miscarry but no sign yet?i have to go back for re scan in 2 weeks to check and if not will have to have some intervention done, this is my third miscarriage i will never have children i dont think i am so sad , anyone got any positive stories maybe gone on to have healthy pregnancy after 3 miscarriages?how long do you think it will take for my body to recognise my baby has died? i did not get this far with the last 2 miscarriages xxxx



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Old Jan 15th, 2013, 16:16 PM   2
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I'm so, so sorry for your loss...it's hearbreaking I know. It may take a while for your body to miscarry naturally...or it may happen soon. It's hard to say because every woman is different. I had an ultrasound at 14 weeks that showed a missed miscarriage. My baby had died very early on, however, my body never recognized this. I had to have medical intervention (medication) to complete the miscarriage. But, like I said, everyone is different.

This was my first pregnancy, so I cannot share any personal stories of healthy pregnancies after multiple miscarriages. I can, however, share that my Aunt has numerous miscarriages before having a beautiful baby girl. There is hope. Has your Doctor done any testing/investigations due to your multiple miscarriages? Maybe that is something you can talk to your Doctor about.

Thinking of your. Hugs



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Old Jan 16th, 2013, 01:57 AM   3
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First off everyone's body is different, it can take a few days or a few weeks for the body to realize that the baby is no more. The waiting on that is some of the worst, especially when you already know what to expect. I have had one take almost a month, and thus was about to seek intervention when my body finally figured it out.

I have had 6 miscarriages throughout the past 6 years, but hun, know that there is hope in all of the loss and sadness. I have a healthy 16 month old, and another one due in a week. So through all the negatives know that things can eventually have a positive outcome.



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Old Jan 16th, 2013, 05:36 AM   4
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Thankyou so much for your very kind message it means alot to me,i am so happy to hear a success story like yours. I am just at home off sick from work this week hoping miscarriage will start soon i had to have the tablets last time to send me in to labour as my body did not reject all of ot. I pray it starts soon as i do not want to got through that again it was terrible. Can i ask you hun did you have investigations?they have said they can do that for me ? was everything ok with you? i am in my late 30"s now and beginning to give up hope thankyou again and all the best with the birth of your second baby xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx



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Old Jan 16th, 2013, 08:27 AM   5
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After the third loss they tested everything, to no avail. I am healthy with no issues that would result in a loss, and the baby had no obvious issues that should have caused any loss as well. I just took it as the time wasnt right, at least thats what I told myself to deal with it. But there is light at the end of the tunnel, so never lose hope in a positive outcome.



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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 16:21 PM   6
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I am so sorry for your loss, this is heartbreaking. I don't have personal experiencing with multiple miscarriages (I've had one) but I do have a friend who had 3 miscarriages back to back to back, and then finally conceived yet again and had a successful pregnancy. She also went on to have another healthy pregnancy after that. So there is some hope......

Good luck, please hang in there



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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 09:18 AM   7
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still waiting to miscarry after being told no heartbeat


Thankyou for your very kind reply, i am still waiting to miscarry,just need this over with but no sign atall yet what so ever!xxxxxxxxxxxx



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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 16:05 PM   8
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I'm so sorry for you I feel the same way I had a scan today after bleeding and it showed mine had too died early on I've had 2 that came away quickly and in small clots, 1 that took so long and then finally came away in the sac which took about a week and was horrinble dragging pain, soon as it came out the pain and bleeding stopped,then a molar pregnancy removed by d+c, since the bleeding has stopped iv got a feeling its gonna be a long one again its hard to stay positive isn't it but just be hopeful one day it will happen x



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Old Jan 19th, 2013, 04:40 AM   9
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3rd miscarriage waiting to miscarry


Hi 1st of all i am so so sorry if any one understands i do, this is my third miscarriage, i feel so down and feel like no one understands how we feel, i keep thinking why me?i have had a missed miscarriage again same as last time, i ended up havin the mediacal management last time it was terrible, my 1st miscarriage was a complete miscarriage. Just want the bleeeding to start but i have no pain or spotting. i am in my late thirties and worried i may never have children but i am trying to stay positive. How are you feeling hunny? I am here when ever you want to talk and if anything i understand what you are goin through, lots of love and hugs to u i am sending xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx



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Old Jan 24th, 2013, 00:39 AM   10
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Thankyou for your very kind reply, i am still waiting to miscarry,just need this over with but no sign atall yet what so ever!xxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi there! How long did it take for you to miscarry? I was told that baby didn't have a heart beat a week ago and I'm still waiting. It's such a pain to be waiting this long =[ I'm hoping it would happen soon! I really want to go all natural with this miscarriage.



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