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Old Feb 14th, 2013, 06:00 AM   1
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Spending Valentines Day in tears :(

I cant believe im back here. Im nearly 22 and have just had my 2nd miscarriage. I really wanted my baby even though it wasnt planned. At first bf was sooo amazing and excited. But today, on valentines day, he hasnt come to see me yet and when i phoned him he said i was out of order because it was his only day off in ages and he wants to sleep in. I feel so alone and have no one to talk to.

I miss my baby and being pregnant. It was hard enough the first time round. Now i feel like ill never be able to have children. The doctors wont test to see if everythings ok coz its "only the secnd time". I cant go through this again. I dont know what to do. I dont understand why my body is doing this me.

The hadest thing to deal with is seeing my baby heathly at 5 weeks then seeing an empty uterus two weeks later. I didnt even realise i miscarried coz it was soo different to before.

Sorry for the rant, i have nowhere else to turn to


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Old Feb 14th, 2013, 06:59 AM   2
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Hi hun So sorry for your loss of your beautiful angel
I don't have any advice as I went through the same thing yesterday at my 12 week scan
But I offer lots of hugs and if you ever need to talk just PM me, the ladies here are wonderful and we're all here for you xx

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Old Feb 14th, 2013, 11:48 AM   3
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I feel for you. This is NOT how I envisioned Valentine's day this year. Not at all. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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