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Old Mar 18th, 2013, 19:35 PM   1
angeloflife
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Sex during a molar pregnancy


Me and my husband had not had sex for 4 months when we first thought I was pregnant. Turns out it was a molar pregnancy.

Last night we had unprotected sex and I have my D&C tomorrow for my molar pregnancy? My husband and I just wanted to be with each other one last time in case something could go terribly wrong in the surgery. We love each other alot and I hope I didn't make a bad decision...

My questions are:
1. Has anyone died during a DnC surgery for molar pregnancy? I've been stressed for weeks, thinking I won't be able to wake up after anesthesia or perhaps severe blood loss.

2. Since me and my husband had intercourse, can he develop cancer from the cysts in my uterus? Or are there any complications like can I get pregnant again even though I am technically pregnant now? My surgery isn't until tomorrow...



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Old Mar 18th, 2013, 20:48 PM   2
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You are fine. Biggest risk is probably infection (so don't have sex for a while after your surgery)

1) No, your husband can't get cancer - the cells are in your uterus, there is no where on your husband's body for them to grow

2) No you won't get pregnant from tonight - your body thinks you are pregnant so you are not ovulating. You will not ovulate in the next 5 days either.

3) All surgeries have dangers, but you will be in a hospital and they have everything they need there to keep you alive, even if the worst happens.

I had 2 D&Cs and they were just fine... like a nap, no problem.



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Old Mar 18th, 2013, 21:34 PM   3
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Thanks Nim for the reassurance,
I am glad to hear this and I will sleep better tonight. After my surgery, I plan not to have sex for at least three weeks just to be on the safe side. Besides, it sounds painful after the procedure is finished anyways. We"ll take birth control once we are finally ready to have I intercourse again.

Sorry you had two go through 2 DnCs, Nim. I can't imagine what you went through and it saddens me to see a lot of women experiencing this. Sometimes t makes me wish I was a male, lol. If only the husbands/bfs knew what we have to go through as a woman..



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Old Mar 18th, 2013, 22:24 PM   4
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Thanks, hun. It's been a rough month. I actually think I have an infection now, but am taking antibiotics and hopefully I'll feel better soon. The surgeries themselves were a piece of cake though.

Ask for antibiotics to take after the surgeries to be on the safe side. My dr. says infection is a much greater risk for scarring than the D&C itself.

Being a woman can really stink sometimes, yeah.



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