Lost my baby on the 21st of June, had a D&C the 25th June. Just waiting for my AF to arrive, don't think until it comes I'll realise I'm not pregnant anymore. I just miss it... My baby was growing as it should, but on the 21st thats when it stopped growing and thats when I started bleeding, I didn't start passing clots until the 24th and that's when I realised I couldn't handle the natural route which I wanted so decided to go through with a D&C. Still very hard to get my head around When I was pregnant I found my sister was also pregnant too, which at first I was upset about but eventually liked the idea. Now I've had a mc and she's still pregnant it's really hard because everyone in my family is always commenting on her bump and I never really had one I'm just jealous I think, but I hope my time will come eventually. rant over
I took miso on 6/7 which did not fully work. I then also had a d&c on the 25th. This past Friday my sister delivered her son. I get how you feel. This was my second m/c since April.
Once my HCG hit 6 I got what I think was a very light AF. My temp dropped and I had really bad cramps but was only spotting pink blood. It could be that I did not develop a healthy uterine lining b/c the d&c was done to remove the blood build up there and the left over tissue, could have been a heavy ovulation. If I get AF next week I will know it was ovulation, otherwise I will assume it was first AF. Limbo is the worst. I really just want a normal look AF and to start trying again. DH and I decided next month we will begin again - at least NTNP.
Sorry for your loss. It's been getting better for me but had a bad week this week. I love that I am an aunt but it made me a bit sad as well.
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