I do think babies of all stages go to Heaven. I talked to a pastor after my m/c and he said just remember GOD said that all babies of all stages go to Heaven. I was 18 weeks when I lost our daughter, and the pastor said her spirit is in Heaven and I will be with her again when it is my turn. I say yes I do believe all babies go to Heaven!
I am not a religious person but I do believe all babies go on to a better eternal life... There is a beautiful memorial stone at a catholic church close to our town which is for all babies, miscarriage or termination and it brings me to tears every time I visit.
There are verses in the bible that talk about how God formed us in the womb and knowing us even before we were formed...so Yes I believe they go back to Him who created them. I don't believe they are angles for angles are far different from humans. They are in Heaven with family that made it there and with Jesus
This thread brings back so many emoitions! its been a year since i lost my baby boy at 16 wks and it tore my whole world apart. i also had a mc before that and 1 after in july this year!
Since that date i have questioned over and over my thoughts on god, i like to think that my babies are with me, but im not sure. like people have said on here why does good happen to bad people and visa versa!
I know ill be the BEST mum so why havnt i been blessed yet?
also i went to see a medium a few months after the 2nd mc, she told me that i was broken hearted, but didnt pick up on the baby, she then told me that babies dont have souls untill they are in the 3rd trimester, which gutted me, my baby was a human being he had a soul no matter how old he was!
Im not religious, i believe in a higher power but not a christian god as i was brought up.I find myself struggling to even believe in anything right now as cherry22 i have the same questions.Its hard to keep believing in anything when faced with so much anger and pain.I will however always believe in an afterlife and angels.I believe that my baby is in heaven being taken care of by my nephew who passed away at 4 days old.I think they are together now, flying around and causing mischief together.I think we will be together again some day.I think a person is a person no matter how small and that they are growing in a better place now watching over us, it gives me comfort to believe that
I strongly believe that babies go to heaven. I lost my daughter in April 22 hours after her birth. I prayed to God to show me something of her life. I have seen her twice in my dreams, on each occassion being looked after my grandmother who died one month after she did. In the first, she was surrounded by hundreds of people/souls. Both dreams were beautiful and the only thing that really puts peace in my heart. My own death will have a purpose as I will see my daughter again. I am not afraid of death anymore as I have something to look forward to (not that i wish i was dead).
I think I am in the process of miscarrying now in my 2nd pregnancy. I am devastated beyond belief as is too much to take in so soon after losing my daughter. However, I think my daughter will meet her brother or sister. Maybe God will give me a child in this life who will stay with me. But at least my daughter is not alone. It is only time that separates us and time passes so quickly.
This thread had me crying, it is so beautiful to hear everyone's beliefs. I especially love the one where the grandparents look after the babies. I lost my baby at only 4/5 weeks (a chemical) but I was devastated. No one but my hubby knows and I feel that if I told anyone they wouldn't consider it a "real" baby. I have a grandfather who died 9 years ago who I loved so much and who I miss, it just brings makes me cry to think he is with my baby. It is hard to grieve by myself, so this thread was really touching.
I dont really know what I believe but I do believe there is something! Spookily enough a work friend of mine went to see a spiritualist a week after I had a MC. She knew nothing of my friend and had never laid eyes on her!!! The woman was VERY precise in what she said and she also said "someone you work with and have just been on holiday with has just lost a baby very early to the spirit world a week ago, the friend is very sad but tell her not to be, the baby is ok and will be happy where he is"
Freaked me right out I tell you! I work with this friend and we had just been on hol together!!!!!!
Maybe there is...who knows! gives me comfort though believing my lost babies (2 of them) are with my granny in heaven :-) xx
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