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Old Feb 22nd, 2017, 14:52 PM   11
Jenny Bean
Waiting To Try (WTT)
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Canada, Mississauga
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I don't think I am over it yet.

I lost my "baby" (can you even call a loss of a baby when it was a blighted ovum) I think so but I don't know if other would sympathize with me because "its not the same thing"....

Anyways, I lost my baby due to a blighted ovum last May at 10.1 weeks.

I don't think I am over it or if I will ever be over it.

I think its because I realize that might have been my last chance to have another baby.

I have a 19 month old and while I LOVE her to death, I did want another baby and still do. The baby I lost was a surprise baby but we were very happy to be having another one so soon.

After the loss me and my husband tried for 3 more months and he decide we should not try anymore. We are struggling in our relationship (miscarriage unrelated) and he doesn't feel he is the type of man to be able to have another child. He didn't even expect the first one.

Anyways, I am 40 so it is very unlikely that I would be able to have another baby but now the hope is lost because he is not in the game with me anymore

I don't want to take away from my daughter because I love her soo sooo much and I am so lucky to have her but I feel so sad for this loss and the loss of hope for another one....what can I do

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