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Old Dec 28th, 2016, 16:15 PM   71
Sweetkat
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Sophie, thank you so much for your response. In a way I don't feel like I ever was pregnant because the line was so faint (although definitely there) and only for a day. To be fair I didn't test at all for 3 days and then got my period on the 4th day.

I was all over the place since having unprotected sex, because was terrified of another MC and a week after having the unprotected sex his fragmentation came back as 49%.

An article I found says that high fragmentation more than doubles the risk of miscarriage, which makes it sth like 60-70% instead of the normal 20% at my age and it's just awful having a positive result and thinking that an Mc is almost inevitable.
OH is back on his medication now too, so if anything the fragmentation will now get worse. He hasn't said a word when I said test was positive and nothing at all when said got my period.

A few months ago he said maybe we shd just have one child together. But that's so selfish as he already has 2 others!!!! I feel that maybe leaving him is the only way to save myself from this MC hell and have a baby.
Are you decided on IVF with DE or own eggs? I would try own eggs if I were you, because in a year or so (or even 2 or 3 years) you could have DE IVF? Is there a cut off point in terms of age?
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Old Dec 28th, 2016, 17:06 PM   72
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Sweetkat- I have not decided yet. I'm not sure I'll ever be able to decide! But I'm too old now after years of mc's to try with my own eggs and THEN try DE IVF. Time just isn't on my side.
I'm so sorry about your trouble with OH. It's so difficult to deal with loss and infertility but I can't imagine how much harder it is when your other half just isn't on the same page as you. Big hugs to you too!!!



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Old May 18th, 2017, 08:28 AM   73
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How are you doing girls? Any updates from anyone?

We only tried once since chemical in December and bfn. Now torn re whether to do IVF with ICSI with IMSI with PGD or try naturally. Have actually had pre IVF tests (ovarian reserve near optimal, womb all fine) and yesterday called clinic to start IVF medication on day 14 of cycle (now day 2) but so torn whether ivf would work and whether it might work naturally.

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Old May 18th, 2017, 23:54 PM   74
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Sweetkat- I wish I had answers for you. If there's a genetic issue with the embryos causing the CPs that can be tested for prior to transfer I'd def do PGD. Good luck to you!!



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