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Old Dec 7th, 2016, 15:15 PM   1
MaryDo
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Ivf miscarriage no heartbeat at 9 weeks :(


Hi all. I had my first IVF and everything was well. At 9 weeks they heard no more heartbeat . I was devastated and still today i find myself crying out of the blue and just really upset...Feels harder now that i actually saw the heartbeat...For me and my husband. I had 3 miscarriages before but in the first few weeks. I was bleeding and it went away but this time i had to have a D&C done. We sent our angel for genetic testing. I am so scared to continue with the next frozen embryos i have left as this can happen again and i don't know if I can take it... Trying4thefirst1 has been a great help talking to me here as she is going through something similar. I just feel like nothing is working and there are no answers.... We were sure the IVF would work even the dr. was sure. And then the sudden loss and D&C was just a shock! I won't give up trying it's just getting harder....We have 5 frozen embryos left! But now i have little confidence it would work if this one did not....



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Old Dec 8th, 2016, 01:24 AM   2
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Hi all. I had my first IVF and everything was well. At 9 weeks they heard no more heartbeat . I was devastated and still today i find myself crying out of the blue and just really upset...Feels harder now that i actually saw the heartbeat...For me and my husband. I had 3 miscarriages before but in the first few weeks. I was bleeding and it went away but this time i had to have a D&C done. We sent our angel for genetic testing. I am so scared to continue with the next frozen embryos i have left as this can happen again and i don't know if I can take it... Trying4thefirst1 has been a great help talking to me here as she is going through something similar. I just feel like nothing is working and there are no answers.... We were sure the IVF would work even the dr. was sure. And then the sudden loss and D&C was just a shock! I won't give up trying it's just getting harder....We have 5 frozen embryos left! But now i have little confidence it would work if this one did not....
Very sorry for your loss. I have one DD and 3 losses (last one at 11 weeks after hearing the heartbeat 3 times). Turns out the baby had trisomy 21.

Our issue is most likely my OH's sperm quality as everything else (apart from nk cells) came back fine for me. My dr said that to avoid losses for chromosome reasons we could have IVF with Pgd. Is it possible to ask for Pgd on your frozen embryos?

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Old Dec 8th, 2016, 05:01 AM   3
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I am so sorry for your loss



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Old Dec 8th, 2016, 12:51 PM   4
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Thanks everyone! SweetKat, thank you for your suggestion. I will ask if i can ask for PGD on my frozen embryos! I am sorry for your losses also.



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Old Dec 8th, 2016, 12:53 PM   5
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Thank you Bevziibubble!



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Old Dec 9th, 2016, 15:38 PM   6
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs.

We also had a loss after IVF but it was at 21 weeks. The heartache of the loss after going through so much to conceive him was almost too much to take.

We have decided to move forward with another transfer for January. We can only move forward with love and hope in our hearts that we will one day get our rainbow baby.



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Old Dec 12th, 2016, 12:43 PM   7
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs.

We also had a loss after IVF but it was at 21 weeks. The heartache of the loss after going through so much to conceive him was almost too much to take.

We have decided to move forward with another transfer for January. We can only move forward with love and hope in our hearts that we will one day get our rainbow baby.
Oh my gosh i am sorry for your loss! 21 weeks... wow! Bug hugs to you too and good luck with the next transfer! We are also planning to go ahead with the next transfer January or February! Please keep in touch and let me know how you are! All the best to you and keep strong! xoxo



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Old Dec 16th, 2016, 09:54 AM   8
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We are going to transfer for January between 15 & 20 so fingers are crossed for both of us.



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Old Apr 13th, 2017, 09:58 AM   9
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Second Transfer done


Hello. Just had the second transfer done! Very nervous! Will have a pregnancy test on the 20th! How is everyone doing?



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Old Apr 13th, 2017, 10:02 AM   10
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We are going to transfer for January between 15 & 20 so fingers are crossed for both of us.
Hi Myshelsong,

Did you have the transfer done? How are you? I hope all is well with you! I just had two embryos transferred Tuesday and have a pregnancy test next week on the 20th. Very nervous! I am on progesterone in oil injections, Prometrium and other medications. After what i went through last time it's so hard not to be stressed now.... All the best to you!



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