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Old Apr 30th, 2017, 08:58 AM   1
laura109
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anybody loosing a baby around 5-6 weeks?


Hi ladies i found out 2 weeks ago i was pregnant and had just stocked up on morning sickness remedies and thought about my future when friday everything changed. I started feeling queasy at the start of the week. Felt like things were kicking in then friday morning and a bm i had pink cm all over the tissue. It continued just when I wiped for 5 hours then went clear again. Yesterday i was clear. I told myself i was probably still pregnant and have bloods booked in tuesday and Thursday to check my levels

Today i have had pink cm again and red blood on the tissue. Like when you cut a finger. The red bits were not clotty or cm like. I have put a pad on and its turned clear again. Although i know that its not right. I feel abit crampy and drained like when af is coming. At this stage with dd i felt sick all day and had nothing like this. I literally don't feel pregnant and feel like im going to bleed soon but i don't know how long it will take?? I feel in limbo. Im sat here in my pjs for the 3rd day and i feel like i am climbing the walls.

Will it come away on its own?
Does anyone know why the spotting is coming and going and not getting heavier?

I am worried there is something wrong with me as ive now had 2 miscarriages like this in a row one at 4 weeks and obviously this one. I had one before my daughter too at the 4 week mark. When i got to five weeks I thought i was out the woods but obviously my body has let me down again. Anyone else in my position?



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Old Apr 30th, 2017, 10:28 AM   2
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Hi Laura

So sorry about your losses. It's a horrible when you feel like your body is betraying you.

Little background on myself, I've gone through one blight ovum last summer and just had a d&c on 4/21 for a missed miscarriage. I went in to the Dr thinking everything was going good had all symptoms of pregnancy the ultrasound showed my baby had died 2 weeks earlier.

Both times I opted for a d&c because my body just wouldn't let go of the pregnancy and I was just emotionally ready to have it be over.

Maybe the spotting is just the beginning of it? I've known women who it took a couple weeks for the process to start naturally. If possible I would ring your Dr and see if you can get an ultrasound. Who knows maybe you are just having random spotting and the baby is ok?

Again sorry for you losses they are never easy.



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Old Apr 30th, 2017, 10:52 AM   3
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Hi Laura, I'm so sorry you're going through this. My first miscarriage was very much like that. Off and on then it finally got heavier by when I should've been 6 weeks. I'm so sorry. Be patient and take care of yourself.
Sometimes we get dealt a rotten hand but there's always hope.



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Old May 5th, 2017, 05:13 AM   4
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hi hun so sorry your going through this its so hard isn't it, id ask for a scan or for your bloods to be taken sooner? hopefully it might just be implantation bleeding or something as I no bleeding/spotting is very common.
I hope all turns out ok! xx



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Old May 5th, 2017, 06:11 AM   5
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Hiya I actually thought the baby was gone but we had an early scan and the baby was ok and had a heartbeat. So the spotting was not a miscarriage. I am really shocked as really didn't think things were right xx



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Old May 6th, 2017, 05:13 AM   6
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Oh that's great news!! Xx



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Old May 7th, 2017, 10:44 AM   7
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Hi, sweetie.

I did something similar. I lost my baby (we think it was a boy) around 6 weeks. Like you, I had only recently realized I was pregnant. I hadn't even told my boyfriend yet, because he had been out of town for work and a vacation with his friends. I found out while he was gone that I was pregnant and began miscarrying before he returned.

By the time I accepted what happened (I tried telling myself I was never really pregnant) and told my boyfriend - who insisted I go to the Dr, everything "had passed". The Dr ordered blood work and an ultrasound and called me a few hours after saying that the ultrasound showed I had been pregnant and lost the baby, but there was nothing that they needed to go in and "clean out".

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