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Old Jun 28th, 2017, 12:17 PM   1
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Our first loss

DH & I lost our baby. We saw the heartbeat at around 6w4d & when we went in for 12 week check up there was no heartbeat to be found on Doppler... so out rolled the ultrasound. I could tell right away, baby wasn't big enough. The little while spot where baby's heart should be flashing stood still. Before my midwife said a word, I knew. My baby is gone. Somewhere around 9 weeks, the heart stopped & so did growth. Thank God for DH... he is so strong for us both. But this is still hard. We found out on Monday and I have prayed for a complete miscarriage to happen naturally before tomorrow (Thursday) so I don't have to take these pills to "induce" but so far it doesn't look like this cramping is going to push through. I am so sorry baby... I love you. Dad loved you. We will see you again one day.

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Old Jun 28th, 2017, 18:19 PM   2
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I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

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Old Jun 29th, 2017, 07:34 AM   3
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I am so sorry hun

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Old Jun 29th, 2017, 08:06 AM   4
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I'm so sorry

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