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Old Dec 27th, 2017, 13:16 PM   1
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Miscarriage and Hemmorhaging

I had my last doctor appointment on Thursday, December 21st. Two weeks prior they did an ultrasound and there was a heartbeat. This past appointment, they could not find a heartbeat. I don't know how to feel. I got to see my precious little gummy bear for one last time. It looked as if it was tired and had laid down. I was devastated. I went to work the next day not feeling like I wanted to be there. I was in an emotional state. I called my boss and asked if I could go home. She said that was fine. I went home and rested and cried. I was told I may have to have a D & C or that I may "pass the articles of conception" on my own. I started cramping very badly yesterday while I was working. I felt the flow of blood too. I was wearing an overnight pad, thank God. I went to the restroom at work and realized I was bleeding profusely. I had not brought any extra pads with me. I went to the grocery store and purchased more. I replaced the soaked one I was wearing with one from the store in the store's bathroom. The walk from the store to work lasted a minute and a half at the most. When I got to work my pad was soaked again. These were overnight pads, the ones that should last 8 to 10 hours. I changed my pad, once again. Thankfully we wear black pants to work. My pants were soaked, my panties were spotted where the blood over ran the pads. I was an emotional wreck. I went through 3 overnight pads in the span of 10 minutes. I decided to leave work without calling my boss and head to the ER. I was under the assumption that I may be hemorrhaging. I have not gone through this in over 20 years. I clocked out and headed to the hospital. I got to the ER and texted her to let her know what was going on. After the doctor saw me 4 to 5 hours later, I accidentally group texted her and my coworkers what the doctor said. But I did tell her what was going on. She calls me and proceeded to chew me out for not calling her when I left. Then tells me that the group text was not appropriate and that my coworkers could not "help me with" my job. I told her that I was not thinking straight since I had soaked through 6 overnight sanitary napkins in less than 20 minutes. She sounded as if she didn't believe me. She was also very rude on the phone. She made it seem like she thought I just dipped out of work to dip. Even if I hadn't gone to the doctor, I still needed to go home, my pants were soaked with blood. I'm so sick of working at this place and honestly the hostility I have gotten from her since I found out I was pregnant has pissed me off. I don't understand why she would treat me this way, but she really needs to learn how to treat people.

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Old Dec 28th, 2017, 18:18 PM   2
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t believe how evil your boss is. I know it’s not what you needed right now. She has no right to treat you that way. Is there anyone you could report her to? I hope she gets what she deserves.

I hope you’re able to rest and take care.

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