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Old Jan 4th, 2018, 22:49 PM   1
ChelsD17
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Possible miscarriage


I just need to vent for a min. Back in nov. 2008 i had a miscarriage with twins it was so hard on me i went into a depression and it took me a while to get over it what was my saving grace was less than a month later i found out i was pregnant with my son who is 8 now hes the light of my life. Myself and my husband have been TTC since with no luck went to doctor after doctor the only thing that was wrong was irregular periods and one fibroid the size of your thumbnail which the doc didn't seem to worried about well fast forward to 3 days ago 01/01/2018 i took a pregnancy test 6 to be exact and it came back positive i was happy but still in disbelief.The last day of my period was Dec 3rd 2017. Well today i started having mild cramping followed by some pinkish reddish discharge. I didn't think to much into it. I called my doctor he can't see me until 01/26/18 well tonight i have full on bleeding like a period the only thing I can come up with by what i've read is a chemical pregnancy. I just want to know why i mean i know why but it's not fair why even after this long even bother having a positive test just for it to be taken away just like that. I was kind of already expecting this to happen for some reason but it still doesn't make it any less easier I just needed to vent about this maybe to hear some of your personal experiences to help me feel better. Thanks in advance for any help or advice.



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Old Jan 6th, 2018, 09:48 AM   2
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I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s not fair at all.

I lost mine at 10 weeks, when we had been TTC #3 for 6 years. When I found out I was pregnant, I can’t even describe how happy and peaceful I felt. Nothing bothered me anymore. I was in cloud 9. Then one day, I had gushing blood and an ER visit (I had an eptopic). Now we are going on 8 years of this craziness and I’m almost 35.

The universe can be so cruel, and we don’t know why this crap happens to us. I do hope you have emotional support to get you through.



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Old Jan 6th, 2018, 13:36 PM   3
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I am so sorry for your loss. It took me a while to get my first bfp, 19 months. Unfortunately I lost the baby at 6 weeks. Then it took us another 11 months ttc to get our 2nd bfp and again I miscarried at 6 weeks. Another 7 months ttc and I got pregnant for a third time and I was lucky this time and 9 months later gave birth to my DS. Then we decided to ttc number 2. At first we caught first time but I experienced another loss again at 6 weeks. We are now trying again and are 3 months in. It feels like one task to get pregnant and another for it to stick! Its not fair but you aren't alone in your struggles. Good luck!



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Old Jan 7th, 2018, 15:14 PM   4
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Thank you guys for your stories i really appreciate it. I'm glad im not alone it can be so hard to deal with...and confusing



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Old Jan 10th, 2018, 14:00 PM   5
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I am so sorry you have had so many heartaches with miscarriage and trying to get pregnant! I know it's tough and I know how much it hurts. I have been there myself. I can't tell you why it happens, but it does, and you know that...but it still hurts nonetheless. So nothing I can say will make it any better. I just want you to know, my heart goes out to you. I don't know your spiritual beliefs, but I will be praying for you!



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