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Old Jun 14th, 2018, 10:46 AM   1
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I'm don't want to get pregnant again

I miscarriage almost a month ago. Literally just had my last day of spotting a few days ago. During the miscarriage and soon after, I just wanted to be pregnant again. But now that it's all over I'm afraid to be pregnant again and feel like I don't want to be pregnant again. I feel bad saying that since the baby we lost was very much wanted. I guess I'm just surprised by these feelings. Anyone else feel this way?

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Old Jun 17th, 2018, 10:37 AM   2
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I'm with you 100%. It's not another pregnancy you don't want - it's another loss you don't want. I had a healthy baby boy in 2013. A miscarriage in 2014 at 8 weeks. And I was just told yesterday that my baby has no heartbeat, again I'm 8 weeks. It took three and a half years for me to get pregnant again and when I found out I was consumed by fear instead of happiness. And just as I feared; here it is. The worst hasn't even happened yet, but I already feel like I can't do this again. It's too hard.

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